Criteria
I really appreciate all the emails and flowers. Some of the individuals sending me emails do not meet my criteria I've placed on my profile. Which tells me they're not really reading my profile. I have no attraction for younger or older men - I'm looking for closeness in age and someone that will fit what I'm looking for. Keep reading.I have a huge issue with age. Many people will say it's only a number. That's wonderful you feel that way...but, you can't convince me otherwise to think in this manner. I would not and will not date someone that is even 2 years younger than me and no more than 4-5 years older than me (unless he's serious, has kids, lives within a reasonable distance and I'm attracted to him). I'm not looking to hook up.
I'm looking for my likeness. A clone of myself, if you will, in personality, morals, values, beliefs and I HAVE to be attracted to him. I get the same resonponses everytime - so save your breath. "You'll never find him! You're asking too much" etc, etc. But, you have to realize something. Even though you might be thinking that, that would be unfair to me - because, you're actually saying that I should settle for someone I wouldn't be happy with. If you think my criteria is too high - you should hope that I find him. Or, perhaps you're upset at me because you don't happen to fall in my criteria and you feel that's unfair? I apologize for liking what I like. Real love connections don't happen all the time.
Attraction is a must. Even though I know beauty fades, I want to be able to have that person for as long as I can have them for. Until that beauty turns to wrinkles and old bones.
I'm looking for Assortative Mating...you should look it up.
Being attracted to "him" would be the cat's meow.
Good luck in your search!
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