Looking to meet someone Special.
As I am a MAN looking for a WOMAN I only want to hear from WOMEN on this matter PLEASE.Ok this is my dilemma:
I am middle aged, look great and feel great for my age; I am fit healthy with a great sense of humor.
I am almost solvent and ready to find my ideal woman.
Because I am very independent, domesticated and very considerate in many ways I feel that I may become a threat to most females.
I have lived on my own now for many years and I have fallen into a pattern of doing things my own way and keeping things very tidy.
Will this become a threat to the average female?
I don’t wish to attract a female that doesn’t know how to be domesticated but I also don’t want her to feel I will take over.
I just want to share every thing in life including the things that most men would expect the female to do for them.
I am a great cook and would cook every night if required, ironing is easy as is all other stuff around the house but if you had all these things done for you would you end up taking advantage of it?
I just want the female psyche on it all so that I don’t drive them crazy and if I know how to play it then I also wont get to feel used.
I believe that the more a man can do for a woman around the house the more time they can have for quality time together.
I suppose I would get annoyed if I did all this so that she could go off with her mates on a night out all the time.
Just trying to get the balance right and wondering what your views would be on this situation.
In short I want to show independence with out offending her or being taken for a mug at the same time.
Please only serious replies.
Thanks in advance.x
Comments (2)
just a big mouth
but i want to say 44 views and no replies says something.
i'll not go any further tho than to suggest your main pic have no shades hats and include a smile
my profile finally actually said exactly that
in the section where it says describe my match
i said he has a full face smiling foto, no hat, glasses and is a non smoker
thats my small input for now
i havent looked at your profile but i do know my biggest concern when, after being alone and self sufficient for many years, i was much more concerned with my inability to get along up close w/ someone
much more introspective-
whereas your thots seem to be focused on 'her'/outside
just something im noticing
when a blog or profile is all about 'them' and not 'us' sometimes its hard for people to respond to on a personal level-
other than to say something superficial-like
dont worry shes out there
i just know for me-its all been an inside job
best of luck to you
it can happen
MF
You sound a wonderful person , I hope when you find the right lady she won't take advantage of you. I, like you am an independent person, though miss being one half of two. I love sharing and believe both should take an equal share of the good and the bad things. That is what I think the perfect life would be. I have two tries at it so far and have had no success, like you I am a giver, and there are a lot more takers out there than givers. Good luck to you though.
Love Chris xx