I met this girl on facebook today, and now she is

Now what do I do. This girl contacted me on facebook, saying she loves my paintings etc, we talk a bit, I find out she is looking for work, so she contacted me, cause she saw I had a page for overnight accommodation, which Ive never had a customer.
but anyway, then later I say to her, if she wants some pocket money, she can be like my agent and sell my art paintings etc, cause Im also struggling.

Then about an hour ago, she says, she will come and build up the overnight accommodation, and she wants to get out of her place where she is at.
I dont know if its safe where she lives, and she is scared. This tiny town in the middle of nowhere is still safe.
she is quite pretty aswell. but, now all of a sudden, I have a female that is going to live in the house with me.

Im getting worried, Ive never had a girl live with me before, but if she is a business type woman, who can help me build up an income etc. maybe its the right thing to do. Maybe I shouldnt be so selfish and want to live alone.
Her family were murdered, so I wont have family problems involved. just the labrodor I think that she has.

do you think its wise, or am I heading for the final fatal mistake of my life.
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The labrador is the dog.
Ok, her star sign is Taurus. I think they are stubborn and as strong as a bull. so, I cant be pushy with her.
I know I wouldnt do that especially if that person was someone I dont know very well roll eyes .. You dont want to rush in something that important, because once she is there it will be hard to have your life the same way as before .. JMO
...talk about some sort of contract with her...if she's going to sell your paintings...might be better to start on a working relationship...think about if she has to go for some reason...like it doesn't work out...and get her to sign it...in my opinion
whtwhb, you will never know the answer, unless you take the risk. But just like all house fires, plan your escape wisely, maybe, both A, B and C escape plan...just incase.. wave

O yes, always have a sepperate bank account that she dose not know about...this is your escape quickly bank account, good luck, hope all goes well... laugh
drinking wht. You can do a back ground check, on that person too. And ask her for 5 prefence before you decides.
I agree you need to know a lot more about her.
drinking @Waf. You block me, from your blog. Thats okay.I will just ask you here. "How you doing?
Yes...
The labrador is the dog.

But I do not like this phrase:
"Her family were murdered..."
I hope you understand what I mean ...

but RU4 rights
no other way to to know each other
I would venture to...
wine good luck
drinking Hello fotin.
Hi Angelpeppers im great keep getting called away so ill leave it closed gotta go have fun people.cheers wine wave
Oh, yes!!
Hi my ANGEL kiss
drinking
... long time...
I miss you angel
How are you sweety?
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pocket money for an art agent? sounds ... thrifty to me.. dunno
thank you, especially RU4 for the escape route plan and secret bank account. The place will belong to the bank actually, so if hell breaks loose, or she meets a boyfriend or somthing who moves in, then Ill be abel to escape all this without any loss.
I wouldn't call it a final fatal mistake, but keep an open mind for anything that might not seem right about her or her intentions. It does seem 'All-of-a-sudden'. I believe she does have great interest in art, it also sounds like she might be seeking refuge and someone and some place to escape to.
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