what if?
Some people that i really care about, really love and respect.. keep telling me..Teddy you are taking all this blog stuff way to serious. Its only for fun, so relax and have fun.
I however fail to see how hurting others, real people, real hurt, could be considered fun to anyone. People like me take stands against such behavior because i don't like to see nice people get hurt. Even if its only on a blog. The pain is felt far beyond the boundries of the net. People that still feel as if this sort of abuse is normal or should just be accepted.. are either bullies themselves, or they just lack honour in my opinion. Would you think its just innocent play if your daughter, or son or someone else that you love was abused on online fora? I doubt it. You would probably be the first to go complaining about the situation. But now that only strangers are victim of this abuse.. we should tolerate it????
Sorry I can't and won't ever do that.
Someone told me i should allow comments to be placed.. SO i won't lock them for now. But if abusive people come defending their actions here i will delete and lock again. And don't expect me to make additional comments.
Comments (36)
I just wanted to say hi,
I have seen a couple of your blogs and you come across as a good type of guy, maybe a white knight sometimes.
I have tried to read most of your blogs whilst i have been waiting to be able to blog myself and i like some of your stories.
Hope you are well.
Leo, members don't get banned from CS for no reason.
Lifeisbest. Nice seeing you being cheerful as ever. have fun dear.
We're all adults and there are people we tend to graviate more to then to others. I do like a good, even heated debate, but I do not like personal attacks and name calling.
But it has to do with wetter or not people should simply ignore bullies and as you say it.. even ignore them. That doesn't work, it didn't work on them in the past and it won't work in the future. Thats why i speak up now before things get out of controle again.
Some people in life get their kicks by watching others squirm. They are usually obnoxious people outside of here, and fortunately we don't have to come face to face with them.
Taking on the role of CS protector is very commendable,but others are quite capable of standing up for themselves, or should find the courage to ignore rebel rousers.
I leave my personal life totally out of this place,and try to treat all with respect.It's not easy I'll admit,but feeding trolls has never, and will never work.
Leave them alone to play and they will get bored eventually.
You have to be thick skinned at times to cope with what life chucks at you.You need an even thicker one in here.
And further more, not everyone is capable of defending him/herself. So should we just let those be fed to the bullies? I could never allow that to happen without standing up and try to make an improvement.
Hi All
You are taking this stuff too serious. I see the ones that say terrible things and I have been called a liar and other things too, but I just ignore!
There is absolutely nothing that anyone can do to me by simple words. As a Christian I rely on the Lord's word, and i.e., "Do not worry about what people say to you because you are my creation so when they say it about you they are saying it to me and I Am the one judges"!
Really Teddy! Just ignore and you will feel better!
Just keep your eyes open and you will notice.
great blog as always
how are you today ?
I am fine thankyou --how is your special lady ?
She has been doing ok.. nothing extraordinary. But i think she also looks forward to spend some actual time in the outside world together.
threedognight... Guess you are to new to truly understand what this is all about. Don't worry to much mate. Just enjoy yourself.