Work/life balance

It's a popular subject these days. We look back to days of old; where we had our BBQs with family on weekends... the Sunday lunch... people over for coffee, slides nights... the list goes on.

However, these days... we are now driven by the almighty dollar. Materialism plays a part in our life. Or for some, employment .... the workplace... simply fills a void in their lives.

Social networking also plays it's part in the equation. We no longer have to dress up, brush our hair, apply makeup... we can sit with our iPhones, our laptops, our desktops and mingle... interact and laugh. The drinks are even cheaper this way, we simply pour ourselves another wine.

Personally I believe we achieve that balance more readily when we have someone to go home to and lose time with... But for me, that's not the case... I come home to relax and lose myself in the solitude. Not a bad thing, except I am failing at that work/life balance.

Does anyone manage to achieve this balance? And ... if you do, can you give me the key to your secret?
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Abagail.. Try Retiring!!thumbs up Works For Me!! beer thumbs up thumbs up..
You have a Good Weekend!! hug wine wine grin laugh laugh
laugh Could you please rub that in a little more?

So, what do you fill your days with now? Golfing? Travel? Tiddlywinks?
Guard well your spare moments. They are like uncut diamonds. Discard them and their value will never be known. Improve them and they will become the brightest gems in a useful life.”
? Ralph Waldo Emersonbouquet
Another brilliant quote... Thank you, Bogart.

Yesterday in one of those spare moments, I took my mother out for the day to see Chitty Chitty Bang Bang... However, that meant I lost time for staring into the abyss and losing myself in refractions of time. I would not have it any other way though.
Enjoy your weekend !sad flower
laugh The irony of that... is I am off to work this afternoon.

Thank you, Bogart. giggle
workgrin enjoy your work also !!
"... I come home to relax and lose myself in the solitude."

It's my balance and my (good) secret...


(and another wine.)
wine

teddybear
Hello Fotinia... Ahhh wine, I do rather like wine.

So the key to the secret is under the cork?waiter
haahahahaaaaaaaaaaaa... great!

I do not know where the key...
but the ancient philosophers and poets say
that the truth is in wine
wine

I pour you another?
laugh
Oh indeed... We should continue drinking, after all... the answer might be at the bottom of the bottle. grin wine
The answer is in God. Rely on Him and He will find a way for you. It may be in the next few minutes or the next day, week month or year.

But in the interim pour yourself another glass of wine and join us on the blogs and we will all have fun!
ED!
drinking
Hi Ed!
kiss

Thank you
Yes we're do... ick...oops...sorrrrryyy...

wine
giggle Fotinia... Oh yes, I do remember the key... It wasn't in this bottle. Must be time to open another bottle, maybe it's hiding in there.

Ed... Hello... Join us with a winewine ... the more participants, the more the chance of finding this elusive key becomes.
...it is possible that we will lose the balance
but we will find the gates...
in paradise!
wine
continue to look for the key...
yay
Is Paradise really what we seek ? Or is the journey we should relish?wine
ick..

is the journey we should relish!
Yes!
and we will find paradise...
wine
MR BOOZE
cheers wine drinking beer drinking cheers wine drinking applause banana head banger dancing yay
applause applause applause applause
MIKE!
ickk...
MIKE TAKE glass and come here
We love you...
TRUTH ABI?
drink pouring
buddies
choir
hahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....
thumbs up
MIKE
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rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

THANK YOU
lips
well just came on and had bottle wine alas i ran outy altogether now AAAWWWWWW SO THOUGHT I PUT UP A FEW FAV DRINKING SONGS HER IS ANOTHER BY THE GENIUS SHANE MCGOWAN
cheers TO YOU ALL wave wave
WOW!
FOR HEALTH SNANE MCGOWAN!!!
wine
GLASS IN HAND WHERES THE PARTY ABAGAIL ,OR SHOULD I ASK WHERE IS PARTI
HOW YOU FOTINIA cheers wine beer dancing cheering
MIKE wine
Thank you
You know - I'm fine as always
cheers
@Fotinia... I always tell the truth, even when it's hard to do. It's the bane of my life... my honesty.

wine Oh must be time to fill the glass again...
applause applause applause applause
YES, yes, yeeeees...
We'll drink to listen to music and find inner balance
which is really no use to anyone except us

wine
Well as long as we are happy, Fotinia...


I just watched Mike's post about Mr Booze... Should we be asking for forgiveness ? We could testify!! rolling on the floor laughing
NO
He are clever
he understand...

so...
you feel you good?
teddybear
Awww Fotinia... I am smiling, but then I often do... I can almost face another day at work now.

How about you? Smiling?bouquet
I am smiling too
Now in Spain 4:25am
but tomorrow sunday
so I drink with you
and I feel me veeeeery good!
buddies
At least you can sleep in. laugh It's Sunday afternoon here, and soon I will be heading to Melbourne for another night... another motel room.

I am glad you are enjoying yourself, Fotinia.teddybear
Yes, me too
ok
goodnight beautylady ...
I hope see you many much times
and drink lol
hug
kiss
It really was lovely to have met you, Fotinia... I hope we cross paths again soon.

Thank you for some much needed laughter. teddybear bouquet

Pleasant dreams. sleep
laugh

sleep

Thank you
rose
Hello there, Three...

That's quite a lot of emotes... Should I just assume you have joined the party with a drink in your hand?
ABs..wave have a few old fashioned, time tested hobbies like reading, gardening, walking, bird watching, star gazing: all costs minimal....add a few more like kite flying, cycling, swimming & learn to play a musical instrument or golf. Your weekend is guaranteed meaningfully occupied....thumbs up
Ditch the "social networking" - it's a time killer...wine cheers handshake yay peace
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