Parting Gifts

It's an interesting thing (to me) to think about how we leave people every day. I don't mean in the aspect of leaving a marriage, family or home. I am speaking of our farewells to one another. What feeling do we leave with the other person when we part? How about the people we don't know as well, someone we would call an aquaintance rather than friend? It's said that first impressions are so valuable because they set the tone of the relationship you have with that person. And, I think that's very true. But the good-bye, ciao, bon soir or whatever words and language we use to signify our intent of ending the encounter can leave such a lasting impression.

I know of no one who has a crystal ball so I never know if or when I may see someone again. I genuinely try to let those I know that I appreciate them in some way. I express my gratitude to them for their work, friendship, love or whatever our connection is. I try hard to show it on my face, in my eyes and with my touch. I'm a consummate "toucher". On top of it all I try to be sure who ever I am leaving knows my farewell is from the heart. A smile and/or a word of thanks to someone during a brief meeting while doing business at a shop may be the only positive word they have heard that day.

Parting gifts can be the smallest kindness But it could be the biggest kindness someone has had for a while. I will try to remember to always give generously.