On Line Dating

I was given a book on the subject of On line Dating Rules. I began reading, and within a few lines, I realized, I had been doing everything and I mean everything wrong, no wonder I never met "the one" for me. Reading on, it seemed I was a complete failure at on line dating. Too poetic, too romantic, too much information, just too much, it said all that scared men away. Really, are men intimidated by that, who knew! Apparently, I don't smile enough in my photographs, well, I am dramatic, not a smiler, I think, lol. Keep it light and breezy, don't give to much information, don't answer emails too quickly, in fact, wait 24 hours so you, don't seem desperate, never be on line on weekends and holidays, you should be doing something exciting, never kiss before 3 dates, no matter how much you want to, so you don't seem too easy, never call a man, men like to be the hunter.. it went on and on and on with the so called rules.. finally, I put down the book, looking out the window, thinking... then I dropped it in the garbage can...in the end... I must be me.. anything else does not feel right... what do you think?... do we need rules for this , like a video game or just be who we are .....