Without the goodbyes
When a relationship ended, two people go on with their lives, into different directions wherever that maybe. How hard the ending had hit them, individuals deal with break up differently. Some will still be hoping for love to come back, while others do move on easily (was what the protrayal, but deep inside they are hurting and have difficulty letting go). That's the case for those ending that both of the involved individuals know that the relationship is finish, done.For those that disappeared without the proper goodbye ... even just a simple telling "Sorry, I can't stay. I'm going to somewhere and I am not taking you." Would it be better to let the other person know that you are leaving, not just keep her/him wondering what had happened. Why no word? Trying not to hurt? I think no. Its an act of selfishness.
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Hi Migs, musta ang Sunday?
for me, whatever the reasons, just tell it. Its really hurt if somebody left us without say goodbye.
Have a good day Shay
a similar situation happened to me once 2 years ago
it was horrible ,and so very hurtful .
and i totally agree , it is very selfish for someone to do this to another
everyone in this world deserves basic human respect and good manners -
if a person feels the need to end a relationship , the very least they can do is show decency and inform the person --and not just disappear , leaving so much hurt and unanswered questions --wondering what on earth happened ! Cruel thing to do to anyone
I agree with you. There are "some" who don't have the respect to face such situation, and the easiest thing (IMHO) they could do is turn their back.
I do believe that its possible to remain friends even after a 'breakup'
but it is also true that the pain remain
because they had some good between the two ends of the rope
Hi all
Always there is pain in endings (may it for better or not), but the pain is more when not being told why ending is inevitable.
If this happened to you or your friends, so sorry to hear that. The one that ran away may not have the guts to tell you straight what was going on, hopefully one day he will. There are some other possibilities; he doesn't know how to tell goodbye, something or a very personal problem came up that he can't share it with you, he doesn't want to hurt you, he doesn't want to cause a drama,
he was kidnapped by alien and he didn't take his mobile with him, he thinks you deserve to be with someone a lot better than he is, and so on.Once again, don't let this upset you too much. Maybe you can leave your message to him that you expect at least a proper goodbye and move on with your life after that
To me you will always be Shay! I like your new pic and I took a peek at your profile to see it better. Hello my sweet friend!
I believe your right. And tell the truth although it will hurt. With me, after the last goodbye, I just walk away and I don't look back.
And I also have a chuckle at myself from time to time when I remember my first love, Priscilla. I moped and I moped when she left me. ha ha ha ha The love life of an 18 year old is crazy!
Teenage first love you said, sweet. You still remember. It just means how special it was when you were 18.