Am I expecting too much....

from the man I love...a simple phonecall or message to ask how I am doing? A simple hug or kiss out in the public?? A word of I love you or I care for you or I miss you??? Is that too much to ask from a man???dunno confused doh

Am I being childish for getting angry over this little petty things?
Am I being too bossy/or too selfish to expect this out of a man?

or could it be that tradition plays a major role in it - Indonesia??

What do you guys think????dunno confused frustrated
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OMG you're in love with the wrong man

teddybear
No I don't think you are expecting too much! Such gestures of affection sound natural to me. BUT: I don't know Indonesian cultural mores so well. AND: We're only hearing your side of the story. So I would have to say, Yes, you are wrong to "get angry." If you feel this should be a natural part of the relationship, and you want it, then talk with your lover about it. Educate him. Maybe he just doesn't understand. If that doesn't work, well, perhaps you got the wrong man.

wine
Balles...you are a shot stirrer! Its not healthy for you or anyone!
And my dear...although its not too much at all, these things come easily to some men and are VERY VERY difficult for some other men, and these men may love their women more than most other men do!!!. If you care for him, just let him know how u feel just as dagosto said and see what happens. If this does not change anything listen to you intuition. Someone with a strong smile like your certainly has a strong intuition which if cleared if distortion, never lies!! (Don't ask me why...thats the way it works! ;) ). If you need help to learn how to listen to it, just ask. :) All the best.
No way, it is not too much, provided the man loves you in real terms and may not have casual approach
I know how difficult it is to please. I like love and I show it. But!!! Many of my girlfriends have shyed away from embarrassment. Oh well! Just live and learn and if you like them enough you'llstay!
Maybe he got busy with work? confused did you asked him yet?

hug cheers

Although i think he could just text you to let you what's he doing

hug wave
When someone is in love they always wish to feel these little things, that's very normal and I don't think traditions is an excuse for not showing love to your partner ..

wave
Hehe, the only one who got it right is Bales. You are indled in love with the wrong guy.

Now i will reveal a little trade secret who will bring me in bad standing amount the other guys, but...I will cross that bridge later :)

When a guy truely are in love, he will show affection in public, to show the other guys that the "prey" belongs to him. On the other hand.. If the guy is more in a "friend for benefit" relationship, he definitely dont want to convey the message that he is taken.

Harsh words, but...
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