kid at heart ?
When men post this one about themselves, what do they really mean?I know we all have our cultural differences but
as to me, there's nothing worse than a selfish, demanding (as a kid) partner in relationships.
Being foolish all the time, what could be more annoying?
One guy mailed me the other day: Lets do something stupid together!
Is it a way of thinking of a grown up man, with whom any woman would feel safe and secure?
I hear lots of stupid things done by teenagers, but hear that from a 40 year old man is definitely a turn off for me.
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OK, let me explain to you from an American point of view. I looked at your profile and it shows you are 32. That's pretty young if a man 40 or over wants to be with you. SO! If he feels a "little too old" for you he will say he's a "kid at heart" because he wants you to know he still feels young, for example, 35.
When a man says lets do something stupid together, again, it's an American thing and he's telling you he wants to take you out, for example, bungee jumping or something "wild". It could also mean something as innocuous as his way of tell ing you he wants to take you out! OR (are you ready for this?), he wants to "fall in love with you".
Us guys do this when we get real interested in a lady. It doesn't necessarily mean he's really a kid or a weirdo. He likes you is what he's saying!
But kids ARE usually set on what they want!
Dont u remember urself at 10 and a new model of batman?
One last comment and I make reference to your answer to LB. Some women don't like that and that's ok too. It seems you want a more mature acting guy so just humor them and say your not interested and wait for the guy you like.
have u seen here school kids or what?
Have any of them mail u offering something less decent that what u could agree to?
Yes, exactly, I'm 32, and believe me its not too young
its a terrible period, especially when u have no kids nor family.
And to 'adopt' another kid like that wouldnt make any sense for real, better to have some of my own than to educate ones of someone else. Jmo
i thought money grew it trees at 10
Dont change a thing, maybe we'll meet someday
You are young! But your very mature and it appears you have always been that way. Some people just are and your like that. There's nothing wrong in waiting for what you want. My son got married at age 34. He waited and he found the woman he wanted. She's so good that my cynical sisters even said, "She's a keeper". To hear them say that was really funny yet good!
We always want to have somebody to rely on, to protect, to resolve all our problems in a very short period of time. I hate when somebody laughs at me at that time, or says i'm thinking too seriously, lets fool around for a change
Have u been always in relationships with just women who met all the criteria from your list?
As about myself, I havent.
So many time I used to go off list, to just check maybe I was wrong in some of my beliefs, almost always. And even that wasnt a real reason. I never met any person meeting all my criteria, so I had to go for less, otherwise I wouldnt be in any sort of relationship like ever.
What I found out for myself, that kid's type of a person is definitely not my type, no matter what package it goes with. And the point of this blog is to share my thoughts and listen to others, which I agree also have and make very strong points.
About the energy I generate, I have to agree with you, it's obviously not the best one according to the circle of people I attract, but its rather developed not inhereted due to the terrible environment we live in.
you know as well as i Aisha we've had more than our fair share of opportunities, but we always tend to search for that non existent perfection, even when we claim that we are not..anything less is subspecies and we will go there other than to deny ourselves, but only momentarily
Our problem will always be ourselves, unless we let go and except our mortality before we run out of time....this is the dilemma i now must face, and you will to if you don't change course....you might wanna look to the U.S. where some good men are busy working and desire a devoted mate
Unfortunately its never around or somewhat within our reach. I mean Brad Pitt, i think, u already guessed
Yes, its sad, that a perfect type naturally exists, but we have to go for something different, just not to die in solitude, and even pretend to love it
I believe that love comes with time, when u get to know each other better,while crush from the first sigh is just some absolutely wrong feeling.
When someone tells me something like that i have 2 thoughts in my mind:
- he simply doesnt respect me as a lady
- its just his manners, (which i defenitely dont like) and he talks like that to everyone else
I do agree with you in the sense that's it's not a nice way of asking for a hook-up.
You will get lots of that on here.
"Hi!
I really want to meet you! I liked you! I think my photos, you also like it! But I think that 50 posts will not allow us to understand each other, and I have to be a limit. I really want to know you more, so ask to have communication with you, you do not mind? Leave to me your email address and I'll write you. I could chat on the site, but I have little time, and to be the limit of messages. I hope that you write the answer for me! It is waiting!"
I tend to agree with Ed.
Some older people do not want to appear as boring and being regarded as couch potatoes.
When they have to compete and they try to relate to a younger person, they might tend to use this expression.
Now, if they go over the top in trying to impress with being foolish, IMO, this is another story.
Take care.
Brad Pit isn't a very good choice. my older brother is a spitting image of brad, and once he hits about 55 he'll look like a scrawny rat
you want a Sean Connery looking man, especially as he ages, whether silly of boring
Yes, i have to agree, maybe its just a way of saying whatever else he meant.
I just felt myself somehow under appreciated.
Thanks,
All i'm saying, is that, this is a wrong approach to attract a younger gal.
I hope, some of em are reading now this blog and making their notes.
This one is maybe for sugar moms, who already let their own kids leave the nest, but still having their parental love overhelming... maybe it works for them
I read the comment on
your blog.
Useing nice words
And good language is good.
i remember laying on a blanket as a child ans watching big puffy clouds roll by and trying to decide what animal or person they look like...just one example of the innocence we lose as we age...the abilty to appreciate the simple things
a very good point made by you though
Boggart, ohh be quiet, i know that better than anyone else
LB, yes I'm Russian, but I dont find myself any similar to the woman you described in tis blog