Lending A Hand

Last week, while mending the fence, my neighbour’s wife came over to chat with me. While talking, her seven year old son joined us, asking if he could help me. The woman was astonished. I suppose with five kids in the house she could do with all the help from the children she could get.

“Why don’t you ever ask me that?” she asked him reproachfully.

The boy looked at his mother and asked;”Mommy, can I help the uncle?”

I suppose that boys, even at that age, don’t want to do “a woman’s work”.


Eish, Sunday allready. the weekend is allmost over!
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Can I help the uncle? I am curious, this is a language thing... an Uncle would be someone you are related to here???
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Hi Abagail,

Yes, 'uncle' is in fact the brother of your father or mother, but here in South Africa it also is the polite and informal way to address any male person more than ten years older than you. Correspondingly an older female person will be addressed as 'aunt' and sometimes as 'auntie'.
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Liked it life?
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Thank you for explaining, Cat. I love learning about other cultures. So wait, does this mean I can call you Uncle? I should check your age, you might become "Uncle Cat"grin
woman's workconfused confused
just do it iron boy!
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peace
I dont think so... I am sure boys prefer to do a man,s work, tahts very normal for boysapplause

No still weekend, dont give up Catlaugh
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rolling on the floor laughing Now every body want call u unclelaugh
Oh uncle ... Love love love
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Yep Life.. but my nephew so kind he helped me to do the laundry todaykiss
Still Abagail.

This is more so with the Afrikaans speaking. Where the terms 'oom' and 'tannie' is used, it would be nothing funny for a elderly post office clerk to be sddressed that way by a complete stranger. Respect to those older than yourself is a big thing here.

Some for our coloured population. Only they prefer 'pa' (father) and 'ma' (mother). South Africans generally are very polite and informal.
Hi Marha,

Not a likely scene here in SA. I don't think I have ever seen a boy that age using an iron.
That is so sweet......a kid offering to help??thumbs up thumbs up
'oom' and 'tannie' ? So, how would you define these? (Yes, this is a language lesson... I must know the basics grin )
Hi Life,

Yes, I hated it, but it was my job to wash the dishes. And the kitchen floor. At least, as the oldest I could pick first.

Funny, I did not mind mowing the lawn. In fact I liked it then. Only now I don't like to do it. The disadvantage of not having a son!
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Hey Mary ...because you promised to buy him a small carlaugh
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Hi Dad Cat, that's only a picture, I don't believe that mommy will let him to do itgrin or mommy needs some smokes or burns or at home just let them do it, and mommy will take it for grantedpeace
@ Life.. it because he wanted to play with the watergrin
Oh darling Lionkingcomfort u dont have a son... may i be ur sonrolling on the floor laughing

I can mowing the lawn and driving ur car for uapplause But what about who??? where is Whoooooooooooooo
he should mowing the lawn and i will drive ur tractorlaugh
Ahaaan Mary,
okay i see... myself like play with water too
Lets go to ur beach Mary and playing with sands and water
We can wait there for bottles.... for our everlasting lifelaugh
Lets go swimming La la la la

Do u want to come with us??? Who??? hands up...lets goooodancing dancing
Hi Abagail.

The exact Afrikaans equivalents of 'uncle' and 'aunt'.

Could also be used on a child sarcastically. My mom referred to me as 'oom' when she was displeased with me, specially for being too verbal for my age.
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See, I was like this even then.
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Martha yes,

I won't easily entrust an expensive steam iron to a kid! Nevermind any garments!
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Thank you for explaining. Best if I go back to the beginning though and learn to say hello.

So much for me to learn...
No Life.

No son. Only two daughters. One of the few things I regret in life, but then my daughters more than made up for it in joy.
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I think this child will be the worthy man. And in general kind children grow in a big family.hug handshake
Hi Abagail,

That is pretty conventional. Straight translations.

'Good morning, good afternoon, good evening and good night' translates to Goeie more, goeie middag, goeie naand en goeie nag. Hello stays hello. To sat good bye translates to ‘tot siens’ (until we see).

The funny one is ‘hi’. It translates to ‘haai’. Pronounced exactly the same, but it is also an exclamation of surprise. Also, the word used for a shark! Those in the sea.
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Hi Ummka,

I think I agree with you. He is also a very friendly lad. Well liked by everybody around.
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Dad Cat, I don't want to hijack your blog but I am eagerly to reply my friend...
@Life.. I have arrived! Where are you?.. and I haven't got any bottles here, but I got a star fish
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Ah, a good story and a good education in the language ways. I used to live with a family from Turkey and they called me Aunty. This was the same as you said it was for you. A kind of respect a bit older person did get for them... They called me aunty the whole time I rented with them and they still call me aunty today. That is so nice. Have a wonderful Sunday Cat. hug teddybear
Angelpepper open doors we will communicate, closed everything how I will transfer to you that promised?hug
@ MariLove on the pretty beach Ha ha ha
WOW,thats a happy pictapplause
I am here exactly infront of cameralaugh
I got a bottle but i was broke it, because it was empthyrolling on the floor laughing

And no worry Cat is here too,
He hide himself behind melaugh laugh
Hi Welela,

Yes, I think respect towards age is pretty much a universal thing.

You enjoy your Sunday too, Wel!
Hey Mary do u have this beach close to ur home?
Ur pict smell so freshlaugh
La la la la
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Life and Dad Cat.. I lend my boat only for both of youkiss
Let's get to the boat, and have fun la..la... laaa..dancing
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Ha ha ha ha
SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA lets go with her, she invited us to her boat

La la la la what a pretty Sunday we have.... cat dont forget foodslaugh
Ah, now I'm setup in the kitchen with the laptop, preparing lunch. Multitasking with the stove, the laptop and a glass of South African wine.
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The menu?
Mutton, mushrooms, potatoes (crossed with a spongelaugh) green beans, gem squash & rice.

Will spoil myself afterwards with custard.
I saw that lifeboat series, but the boat was much different, I'm sure. and bigger!
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Life

in that water we wont need to take food. Spearing fish would be much nicer. such clear water!
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@ Life the beach is at my hometown is far away from where I am living now, it takes 4 hours with direct flight.
Life and Dad Cat I have caught them
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let's have barbeque for lunch.. la..la..la...dancing dancing
Ah Martha,

It looks perfect for a bed of charcoal.

Some prople here do it with the scales still on the fish, but I don't like it that way. You lose the skin and that's the part I like most.
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Cat,
You must remember this Uncle ? laugh
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