and if happily married is an oxymoron....

Well i don't quite understand the concept of oxymoron but they say that " happily married " IS an oxymoron. confused dunno
What about happily divorce then ?... dunno

And if happily married IS an oxymoron, then can anyone tell me why on earth am i still here ??? doh laugh comfort





#sigh...
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Because u live a lazy, good life....
@ Kasih - An 'oxymoron' is a quote or sentance that contradicts itself like the words: 'bitter, sweet' used in one sentance, Girl.

A lot of people refer to marriage as a 'drudge', so then how can you be married and happy at the same time?????

laugh laugh grin hug wine
I've been married once, was not happy and then I got a divorce and got happy... what does that say? I'm more happy as a single then I was as a married woman. So I assure you, no more marrying for me, that's for sure! Have a wonderful day Kasih. teddybear
Its a thin line between love and hate
choir
Hey Vix......you r right....i hate you

and love you at the same time.....doh

dunno rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing kiss bouquet lips
Well I may not always be right, but Im never wrong...laugh

bouquet
I was unhappily married for many years.
Now I am happily divorced, no jokes.
I would like a long term in the future, not marriage.
Google "Oxymoron list",
They can both be oxymorons. It depends on who is using that sentence.
PS Hello.........Bob, love you too bro wink cheers
well guadal, maybe yes maybe no, maybe its just another oxymoron, which that reminds me i have to came up with another oxymoron word ....confused beer
Good question Hans, how can you be married and happy at the same time confused dunno doh frustrated frustrated frustrated laugh
hi Welela .. yeah was married once also but happy now as single innocent high five thumbs up
i guess happiness is never about what the package looks like from the outside ...cool
yep Dedo, they say love and hate operates in the same frequency sigh and maybe that could be the answer
oh well sigh cheers
hi Daisy, yes , to have a future with out marriage is possible but to have a marriage that have no future is a waste of time.

Happily divorce it is wine hug cheers
hi Chris grin wave I did google the oxymoron list , and the fact that many listed happily married as one ... blues frustrated frustrated doh cheers teddybear
Hi Ed , sadly yes happily married is an oxymoron for some Ed. like dedo said a thin line between love and hate dunno sigh pizza and a pizza for you !
hi Checkmate wave hows the weather ?comfort
Hi Kasih,

There is nothing contradictory about being happily married, since it's possible, to be both happy and married at the same time in the same relationship.

The fact, that happily married couples do exist, and can testify to the happiness and success of their marriage, should be an encouragement to those who are seeking a lifetime commitment, till death do they part.yay


God bless! Serendipityteddybear
Hi Kasih,

An oxymoron (plural oxymora or oxymorons) (from Greek ???µ????, "sharp dull") is a figure of speech that combines contradictory terms. Oxymora appear in a variety of contexts, including inadvertent errors such as ground pilot and literary oxymorons crafted to reveal a paradox.

This is a definition of oxymoron. It means that something is contradictory. Whoever "they" are that say "happily married" is an oxymoron obviously has not had a happy marriage.

I have had a happy marriage until a few years ago, and it is no oxymoron. It is possible and it is a blessing from above.

The relationship I am now in is also happy and we will be getting married in the foreseeable future.

So take my word for it, "they" are not always right.
Hello.........What happened to the leggy legs photo lol? No...................not an invitation to repost it wink
only total losers will say that, Kasih... they are just envy to those good performers...laugh
Hi Serendipitty, off course happy couple exist, sad couple exist too. , and i am an alien and my kind exiated too transport flirty ahahah laugh just kidding.
They say if you love the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain , take care
teddybear
halvo, well it was suppose to be a joke. Its just something that they laugh about.
Like if a man often make wife joke it doesnt necessarily mean that he hate his wife, but maybe he is stuck with the wife gets all the money kind of situation. But it doesnt means that he doesnt love her.

Like dedovic say, there is a thin line between love and hate, and some do say that love and hate operates in the same frequency.

The real enemy to love and hate is apathy. Take care cheers
Hi Ken, i also never regret any moment in my life. I am a strong believer of everything happens for a reason and a much deeper reason. And yes, i am now being picky. very picky because it will be my future that is at risk if we ended up with a wrong man

There's a saying if you have expirience the true happiness even just for once, you will never let anything or anyone gets in the way.

Take care comfort cheers
Hi Mate, what dya mean ? leggy leg ? confused you like my legs ? love smitten ahahah they are made off long runs and exercise btw ...cheers take care
Hi cynreal, well can be, but its more of a joke people say daily. i am not much of a performer thou confused just an ordinary girl, thats me sigh dunno
"If you love the rainbow you have to put up with the rain." I like this quote.thumbs up

Btw, for an alien, you have a good sense of humor.grin laugh


God bless!bouquet
Another saying which seems to be true..

Before you can find your Prince, you must kiss a few frogs.






If you don't get the reference, it relates to Western World old fairy tales where a handsome prince is enchanted by an evil witch and turned into a frog and doomed to stay one until the day a beautiful woman kisses him.
no im not kidding serendipity im an alien laugh cool God bless you too !teddybear
okay ken , SHOW ME THE FROG !!!! dancing ahahahah
i ain't pretty but like hell i will give it a try !

cowboy
Well everyone is entitled to have different views on marriage or on things what made they happy or unhappy. If I may suggest, Kasih, stick on people who made you happy when they're around you wine
its just a joke lachicha. Off course i stick to the people who make me happy, and i try to make them even more happy innocent
dont you just love love .. heart wings
This is just a joke peeps, what you think they invented oxymoron in the first place ? for sarcasm maybe but also for a laugh grin
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