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Either we establish a relationship based on love and understandings or we just friends with benefits
I mean to say
And it's just like the ocean under the moon
Well that's the same as the emotion that I get from you
You got the kind of lovin' that can be so smooth, yeah
Gimme your heart make it real
Or else forget about it
I love that song!
Loving someone , gives you courage!
I do not know the absolute answer to your question but my relative truth is going to be closest to Welela's answer. My own personal feeling, my gut instinct for what it is worth, is that showing oneself love is no indicator of the ability of love's outward expression. But, at least, you won't lose yourself in that scenario. So, given my experience in the topic, today I am more persuaded by Welela's answer.
Still, I do observe children learn to express love from their parents' expressions - they do not learn it from themselves. I do not believe love is inherent in everyone. I do believe it can be taught if the pupil is child-like docile, however. Same as hate can be taught and is not inherent in a person. (It just gets harder to rewire when biology gets coded by patterns.)
I have a very strong bent towards ideals and the focus of ideas. The actual shorthand for me in business (marketing) was "idea man." I cannot imagine myself in a harmonious, nurturing romance without this aspect of myself reflected in/by my partner. I do not mean she needs to be my "yes man" - she just needs to be able to speak my "language" in concert or debate.
There are three subjects people focus their talk on: people, things, and ideas. I cannot see people making a life being tethered to the opposite ends on that scale.
I would say you have to know what you need in a person before you meet them, but, that does not always work out either I have learnt to my surprise.