Stay Single

Many people prefer to stay single after living a hard experience in a marriage. What I see is that men prefer to stay single but women prefer to get married again in spite of the risk. What is your opinion? Does it depend on the country or culture?
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well after 13 relationships I'm still single , if you realy loved one of them you will find it can take 5 years to get over emotional hurt ....but women carn't wait that long and will enter into another relationship in less than 3 hours with baggage by the ton to off load on the net poor guy who say's yes to them laugh laugh
Constantly amazes me to find men with such a low opinion of women on a dating site confused
we know there are one or 2 good women out there , and from expeience theres a few thousand bad women out there ....laugh
Always opinions are going to be different women from men. Do we have a different point of view? After 10 years of living alone I decide to get a relationship but the hard thing is to trust again....confused
Ah what are ya like virgo but still you deserve a boxing
giggle but you know i love you really bouquet

Hi single again4uwave
if you really do have trust issues perhaps a dating site is not the best place 4u to bedunno
but you cannot build on tomorrow's possible happiness if you keep dwelling with fears that came about from the sadness that once was in yesterday.. what people do or don't do mainly comes about because of the type of people we meet long the way.. hopefully you'll find that trust worthy one and she'll take you in that right direction.. such a road to happiness does exist, good luck to you in your search teddybear
Sir Virgo Im one of it yay laugh laugh heart wings
Hello wave Ayos lang Migs sana ikaw rin...bouquet
I don't think this is gender specific as you mentioned it before.

Some people want to move on with their lives and have a relationship again, others just don't. dunno
Not really depending on country or culture. I know of a 70's Jwoman who never remarried after her husband died. She devoted her life to raising her children thru college and tilling the land. Old and very bent she is. She just stopped rice farming last year but she still continues planting veggies for their own consumption. Never drives. Only bicycle and small motorbike. To think she looks like a looker in her younger yrs. Women who can't stand on their own and who feels they need somebody to provide and protect them might really do what you're saying. As for me, broken trust is something hard to mend. Maybe love could but it would take time and destiny perhaps.
Nagbakasyon kami sa Dubai din nag ramadan naging hectic ang sched next year pa ako uwi pinas in God's well...ikaw nakapagbakasyon kana?Migs di ba bawal dito nagusap tayo nang tagalog?
Seriously,women wants to stay single becos we are very emotional being we want someone who would cuddle and share our problems,culture?yeah but it can be fix if both parties are willing to adjust for each others,in some cases women wants to stay single depend on their past relationships,responsibilities in life,environment and financial status,men dont stay single they still mingle in diff.waygrin
good women give us hope that a marrage will last for ever and our love for each other will stay strong ...through the good and the bad times , and if we get hurt or sick we will know our loved one will look after us as I will look after them , .....
banana
Teka sis nose bleed ko sa comment q hindi naman wag ka lang mgmumura,uwi na q next month ,oo nga pla noh ramadan dyan,mhirap b dyan?
@ Migs now that i used to here di na ako nahihirapan,nakapagadjust na ako...Thats nice masisislayan mo na ang pinas...
Good for youwinkmasaya na hindi ang pg uwi ko ,girl d kta ma pm i want to say something
well stefffie,Im not unhappy with ny family at all.I have only one brother.women like my last ex comes a dime a dozen.I dont need women in my life like that.life does go on.so you have anything else to say
Oh i meant women dont want to stay single not wants sto stay single(correction on my 1st sentence)
Migs send it via email i wait for it...
for many ,many ,many years i stayed single through choice, now i am single cause i have no choicemumbling
You are not accepting flower,etc outside your area
Migs, you can send via interflora laugh
Happy@good morning,im trying to contact my friends from outta spacegiggle
migs, they do deliver in the milky way, but it will cost u extra
Oh jees they say their master is here to envade us(daniel),laugh
he is a master in the bedroom i hear, his hands can telllaugh
laughoh he is master salem bed nowlaugh
Happy and Migs! Hi girls! wave

Just came back from a party. So fun. grin
Can't stay for long though, be early tomorrow.. blues
ok nite2 NMT
he is looking for a Salem witch hunt migslaugh
Hi chile baby,i know you feel exhausted atm hep you better get some sleepwave
Hi Itchy:
I know this is not the best place to find someone, in spite of that I have found here great people I would say real friends, sometimes the distance is the problem to meet them. Well It`s true that I have to trust again in someone, after all that`s the only way to build a new strong realtion.handshake
It doesn't depends on cultures/counties. In some countries, women are more likely to stay single while men feel the need to get someone new to fulfill their loneliness.
Cyn Real: Just one question for you. Which are those countries?confused
As a woman who chose her single life and really enjoy life without a man "drawling" over her, I live a very good life on my own. My only regret is that as a single I have to pay the same as a couple, so in fact I pay twice... This hunts me, but does not enough to make me want another man. I live in Norway and have several reasons to be single, and there I is a lot of us in Norway, single woman, and single men... and the men end up taking a Asiatic girl as a wife...bouquet I feel fine, and have no regrets being a single, I really enjoy it. yay yay
It has nothing to do with gender. You get needy people who can't stand to be alone and not needy people who are happy with or without someone special in their lives. Where I live both men and women are mostly needy. Most of them have been married 3 times or more. The few ones who are single want it that way or are just waiting for some couple to break up so they can grab the man or the woman. They will even try to break couples up in order to get a mate. That is why I am single as I don't want to be part of that circus.
Your observations are wrong, opposite from your post the research show women tend not to get married but men do ! Do your search !
@single I spent about 20 dating years single, kissed lots of frogs, then married a Princess when I found one, and for 18 years was HAPPILY married. Much, much sympathy for those who made bad choices as spouses (many hooked up permanently while way too young IMO). Now I am single again and resigned to another decade of kissing frogs. Sigh. Having been on both sides of the fence I can say both sides have advantages and the single side has more disadvantages than does the happily married side. However, I concede being UNhappily married doesn't sound like it is any fun at all.
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