Love 11,050 km

A friend told me to pick up one name on her FB friend list to be introduced to me. I thought she was joking, but I did pick one name. “Just for fun,” I told myself so. She then gave me his email address and suggested me to write to him, but I refused and asked her, “Isn’t it supposed to be the man who starts it first?” Once again, I thought she was only kidding with this idea until one day this guy whose name was picked up said “Hi” on my messenger.

In few weeks, I lost interest in chatting to him and we almost never talked in about a year, but he kept me on his FB friend list and I did the same until one occasion happened. My friend (-is also his-) somehow kept provoking us on how great we would be as a couple. He seemed provoked, but I didn’t like my friend’s idea as I thought he and I didn’t share similar views on what we wanted to look for in a relationship. I started to disagree with him whenever he asked if there was possibility for us to get along in a relationship. I was busy giving like 5 reasons why he and I would not make it, but he could give back to me like 6 reasons why we would make it as long as we gave it a try

After reading my skeptical responses, he got impression that I didn’t like him. We lost contact for five months which was not unusual thing happened between us before he reappeared on my messenger in June 2012. This time we managed to chat without having disagreement from my side. I finally realized that how hard I tried to ignore this guy; I could not make him out of my mind as some of my blog contents were inspired by my disagreement with him. Every words I uttered to make him upset turned out to be words which impressed him because he could conclude that I was actually paying attention to him. I, of course, wondered why he and I had to get in touch again after some time, but I felt like I was given second chance to get to know him better after I wasted my first chance. The chats became intense ever since.

We eventually met in person in Indonesia three months after getting reconnected and that was followed by other meetings. We got married last June in Denmark, almost three years after we first were introduced by our mutual friend.

I had to go back to my country roughly two weeks after we married as my visit visa was due to expire and I had to take German language test in my town to get a certificate which I needed to present to the Embassy for getting my visa application approved. Now, it has been approved. So yes, this is a goodbye blog. I will fly soon to join in my husband in his country for good.

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I came to CS with a broken heart two years ago but I joined in because I wanted to make a chat friend quit asking me to join in as he found his wife on CS (sorry J!). After a while, I was interested in playing games Games here, I haven’t seen any other dating sites with many free features on their sites. I thought that I would repeat history of my parents who met through printed dating site back then in 1970s, but I don’t regret anything now that I have found my husband elsewhere. I hope this could also motivate you for not expecting too much to find your future partner through dating sites; there are many other ways for you to meet your one and it could be in an unexpected way to happen. If you don't find one here, then don't be discouraged or down, just enjoy your time and have fun on CS.

Back to CS Blogs, I had a great time on CS Blogs. What a pity that some regular bloggers whom I mostly interacted to for more or less two years have been inactive. However, I believe some can still read Blogs without having to login so thank you for the fun!


All the best to you