I’m in love with two women

Can a man be in love with two women?

I love my new girlfriend and she loves me… But I am also in love with the mother of her son and she is in love with me too. I don’t want to lose either of them.

Should I tell them about each other?dunno

Or should I wait until they discover about each other?hole

Maybe I can marry both. These things happen in Africa.rolling on the floor laughing

It is not that I'm greedy; I just like a lot while I enjoy the variety.
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It's a slippery slope professor next it will be her mother's daughter doh beer
Hi catfoot, good to see you again...wave

I believe a man can be inlove with two women because I have seen it here in my country. I almost fell victim to one myself but got out of it ASAP. If I were you, I would choose just one cos you are bound to hurt both women if they happen to find out. Just my thought....cheers
Hi Catfoot.
I bet you will get 100-score if you take the Basic Math Quiz.. laugh
Hi Z
His my girlfriend's son's mother does not have a daughter but she has 5 sisters.rolling on the floor laughing
Hi Kalpa
Hmm. I did not do very good with that maths test.laugh
The statement her son's mother sounds like "Your mother's brother's only brother-in-law" on the Quiz. laugh
Kal,
I suppose the theme is not very original.laugh
Cat, as a blogger you're supposed to be a sad lonely old git whose only comfort in life is a computer screen, it must be true I read about it daily on the blogs, so my question is how comes you've got involved with "all" these women in the first place dunno doh
I think it might help if I grow a mustache again.
Catfoot.
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bye Kal
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Cat is not in love with two women... He is in love with the same womandunno
If his girlfriend has a son, then his mother can only be the same woman - unless her son was adopted, of course!doh laugh

Good luck to you Cat anyway! Then, as they say, "you can kill 2 birds with one stone"!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing peace teddybear
Hi Del
Thus are the perils of love.laugh
Sounds grand to me anyway. I'm just happy for my friend Catfoot who have found a good woman and she has found a good man. I wish you all the best in the future both of you...hug teddybear hug
Hi Minerva
Very good deductions. Indeed the fountain of wisdom we have here.
Her son was certainly not adopted. Nor surrogated. rolling on the floor laughing
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Hi Wel
Thank you my dear friend; there is still place for you too. But my heart is like a South African taxi bus. There is always place for another one.
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Good for you Cat! Then you can enjoy one woman at a time and give her all your love and your time...hug
Min, doh not in my experience, your girlfriend & her sons mother are two completely different people professor laugh wine
now I must toddle along. I still have a bit of REAL work to do. I would not want to be busy next week as well.
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Will peep in a bit later.tongue
I'm gonna wait for the Movie before passing judgement. laugh

I think its called
"Not without my Girlfriends sons mother or the mother of the son whos mother I loved or the woman I loved before I met him as his mothers son."

There is also a directors cut with extra sisters doh
Any Idea who stars in it dunno
Del, the word guru according to Wiki is a master or teacher, I'm not convinced our Guru has yet mastered the finer points of the net, has yet to meditate with our friend Mr Google whose wisdom knows no bounds & where writings once written can be brought forth for comparison leading to total enlightenment professor conversing beer
Non, I don't know, for a blockbuster like this would you cast an unknown actress or big star dunno beer
CFoot... you play with a word where the meaning just same... 1 person only like Minerva said.

then .. can you tell me how many person are they : MOTHER AND DAUGHTER ARE WIDOWS WITH 1 KID ?laugh
Good Smartass! I am glad you agree with me..thumbs up handshake hug
Nobody needs to be Einstein to work this one outyay yay
Maybe just stay single and enjoy dating both of them. If you have told one or both that you love them, and that they are the one for you, then you are in for a fall, my friend.

There is a saying, "you can't ride two horses at the same time".

This is reality. Either make up your mind, or watch out.

I am engaged to marry my perfect partner for me. But my heart melts when I talk with my previous girlfriend still.

You could say that I love them both, but I had to make the hard choice because I love them both.

Love will make sacrifices and consider the long term well-being of another. So if you really love both of these women, then make the hard choice so that the other can get on with her life and maybe find another love who will give all of their love to her alone.

JMO
Holy tootsie cat,
I should have had worn my glasses..laugh
Gees man..well, if I were, I would tell them both
Perhaps by doing so, one of them might walk away,so you
Are left with one. Or both might walk away, leaving you alone.
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Zman,
I think its a role well suited to Sally Field. dunno
Or if she cant be cast what about Julie Walters. For a gritty real life feel. beer
Z.
Sometimes I wonder exactly whose side you're on.rolling on the floor laughing
Non,
While I wish you well in your new career as movie director I think it is lousy of you to try making a mint out of my dilemma.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Minerva
You say such kind things. At this trend I will soon have to consider creating a little place for you too. Have you any good looking sisters as well. Sisters are always a good recommendation.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Dont worry Cat all of the names have been changed.
And you may be glad to know Brad Pitt is playing your Part. laugh
Halv
The punishment for a man with two wives is two mothers-in-law. Luckily this does not apply here.laugh laugh
Wel
The two girls are closely connected and by now know about each other. doh rolling on the floor laughing
rolling on the floor laughing they are a real identical twin Cfoot... or conjoined twins confused
Non,
The plot goes much deeper. My girlfriend is also in love with my elder daughter's father while the other one is in love with my younger daughter's father. It is so complicated. So many triangles. Almost like Rich Man, Poor Man. It is so hard to work out who sleeps with who.
@ Cat, sounds like a complicated state of affairs (pun coincidental)! tongue
Smarty
At my age I can hardly handle one woman. What on earth am I going to do with another?rolling on the floor laughing

I suppose we could play hide and seek all day. If I can hide first. She'll never think of looking for me in the pub.laugh
laughCFoot: I know right! Im inlove too!. . . thumbs up
Cat, I've lost you...or you lost me...? I said thank you for having a little spot for me in your heart too, and I know your two women are the same, I understood that when I read your blog. Get me right this time? laugh hug teddybear
Hi Dad Cathandshake
If you want to marry both of them, please send us your wedding invitationpeace
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