Communication...............Why doesn't anyone Com
Ok so I was in a relationship that I thought would go places, permanently. However he had no communication skills. Is this a common thread or is it just the shy quiet type. Or the illusion of the shy quiet type.
Where are the decent, kind generous men who can actually communicate. Hellooooooooo where are these men hiding?
This is probably one of the biggest reasons for breakups. Money, bills, differences in personality; all these can be worked on with communication.
ANY THOUGHTS
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i just had a gal break up with me..and i am prety sure she did not understand where i was coming from..i know i do not understand her at all..
but one of the keys was..i think ..she thought it should just flow..be easy..no work involved.. perhaps it was easier 40 years ago..less baggage..less pain and anger to distrupt the flow of communication.. at our age ...
its a lot of work to communicate ..and we all bring a lot to the table .. plus men and women think a lot different.. and its real hard to not read between the lines...on here....women ,i think tend to read a lot into what you type..and what you dont..i know i reread and reread to try and make sure i dont imply something i dont intend..you should not have to work that hard!!!!!
so the way you feel about men...
i feel about women....
TY
BTW nice bike
The worst kind of communication is made by those that just tell you what you want to hear just so they can spend time with you and be part of your life while having no real consideration for your family and children.
This is a quality that should absolutely be part of any relationship you want to grow and become meaningful.
Communication expresses your true self and you can only truly determine compatibility through honest communication. Those that do not really understand this are wasting someone's precious time.
zarena, your 1,000,000,000,000,000,000% on track with this one.