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I hope you get a change to see her, and to be with her soon. But it can also be that you never are going to meet. Who can tell, but time. I wish you good luck and hope things sorts out for you guys.
It is hard to not get to see her in years and then you have to ask yourself if that is what you want. You went on a international site and meat a woman living far away from you. So again, I can not understand why you can not go see her, one way or the other... Can't you go see her when your holidays are and she will for sure meat you then, if you come to her country? maybe not this year, but next summer? I really don't see any other problem then money wise... it will be expensive for you to go to her country. I would look into all problems you are meeting and not bow under any of them... If you want to meet with this lady, then you should.
I have a friend who recommended this site to me. He found his wife on here and she was from China. They got to know each other on here for about 2 years until he decided to go over there and visit her. Shortly afterwards, she decided to attend college, here in the states, and that is when they got married.
There is no doubt that LDR are very difficult and take extraordinary effort to make work. This old saying comes to my mind, "where there is a will, there is a way."
Good luck.
I met a beautiful lady from the Philippines online. We met online practically every day for 6 mos. We decided if we were going to the next step of being together, that we had to meet. She was working as a school teacher so I decided to go there to meet her. Best decision I made! I spent three weeks with her and we realized that we were meant for each other. This was the easy part!
If you plan on bringing her to the states, she has to apply for a fiancee visa thru US immigrations. That will take some time. You will have to be very patient! But if you truly love her, it will be worth the wait.
My Filipina lady finally arrived in the states after 10 months of waiting! By the way, I used an civilian agency that specializes in helping you thru immigrations!
If you are interested in any further info, I will be happy to give it to you!
I wish you the best in your venture!
Before you start planning the rest of your mutual lives, you should meet somehow for a long holiday and see if you actually have things in common.
No disrespect, I met people off here and they weren't one bit like they portrayed themselves. You have to meet in person first, see how that works out and than take it from there.
Best of luck to the 2 of you.
Congrats on finding your love...it takes patience though...good for you!!