Thunder thief
Somehow I notice that interesting blogs which have many comments are disappointung by the end.I believe when someone write something about his thought or feeling or problem, he/she has put an effort to do that expecting to have opinion from people. In the begining, yes, people giving comment related to his/her blog until "CS blog Celebrities" comment it and HIS/HER fans comment on HIS/HER comment which is not related to the original topic. After few days people start commenting and the writer is flying away.
It start bothering me and wondering what are these celebrities want by stealing thunder and change a serious topic become a joke? Is there any ethics code in commenting a blog or CS blog is just a free area where people are not oblige to respect others?
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for example : you. you put your blog, after many members put our comments, and we get no response from you... what is going to be happened? sure someone hijack your blog...
that's not good
Referring to me that I don't reply comment because I don't have internet connection at home. Not to mention that I'm a busy person work.
I'm blogging from net cafe (connected to CS from mobile just happened recently). When I had a chance to check my blog, it had been burried by tons of new blogs and people were not looking at my blog any more.
I'm not looking for popularity by "always" stand by IN CS blog.
Very frustrating.
For instance, nam's blog. He was there answering the comments and someone one comment came up starting by mocking nam and then followed by others.... So pity.
The worse is when 2-3 commentators chatting on someone's blog!!!
now is 2am in my place...
oh! And me too,well! kind of. I am sorry too. please forgive me yawl...
I also agree with ZMountain that this is primarily a social site, people chat for a variety of reasons, and many a happy couple have got together through this kind of socialising.
Personally, I like to see people chatting and responding to each other's comments; I like to see the topic meander and change. I feel it's my responsibility to bring the various trains of thought together from time to time, forging something greater with other people's input than I'd originally thought of myself.
I wonder if perhaps the forums would be a better medium for you? When you come back to one of your threads it will appear on everyone's homepage when you comment and the responses from others will start all over again. Forum threads don't get buried in the same way that the blogs do.
Personally I find calling people 'celebrities' and 'fans' and talking about 'stealing thunder' a bit disparaging of others. It may make people, good, loving people feel bad about themselves.
Perhaps you could reflect upon what it is about their warmth and friendliness you don't enjoy? Perhaps you feel left out and excluded as it all happens when you're in work? Perhaps you could think about making the comments you want to make anyway regardless of what other people are doing? Perhaps you could join in with the laughter as well? I'm sure you'd be welcome.