Instant love style...

Hi Smart! I'm guilty as charged! I made hasty decisions that I much regretted later and as a result of that, I have to endure a lot of pain in the heart....

Who is to say how long it takes to fall in love,
It might take a millisecond or 10 years, but when you fall in love, its a great feeling.
Question,
Do any of us really know what love is and what it feels like?
Why do we place restrictions on when we can be in love?
Just curious i guess.
Hi Smartassss, your looking well.

Morning from Norway Smarta. Yes, you are right, it is better to think a little then to be to hasty. When I was younger I had a ill temper, but I have outgrown that, so much calmer now and I like myself much better, age do that for you. But I do also agree in what you say in your blog, we are mature people, so act like one, be one, please. Enjoy your Wednesday, sweetie.

oh Mimi... as your friend I only able to say... enjoy the pain, in love matter, the more we try to forget, the more you feel it..
so, do opposite way... honest, it works to me..

talking about fall in love, I think different person will have different thinking.

to me, love is acceptance and comfortable feeling (in all aspects). bcos of comfortable, we will miss him/her anytime..
when I feel comfortable to be with someone, then I have to be able to say that I accept him to be in my life... so it would be related to timeline..

Hello Simmo1.. I have to be well... thank you.

Dear Welela,

well... we grow together with number actually. the older, the wiser.. so, I dont understand when i meet a guy only mature on ages but not on acting...

But Smarta, you know, from young age we women are much more mature then any men... so no wonder this guy is not mature... he is not old enough to get the point here I think.

yes... there are some men childish, but there are some men mature than his age.. maybe its depend on life experiences, society, personal..

Hi Zeurich... so you agree with me naa?

I agree with all you wonderful ladies, I was told the other day here on the blogs that I'm a blind dork,,,,,because I fail to see that someone is interested in me.,,,well I'm still old school, and expect that person to approach me, whether I accept or reject the advances,,,,is up to me,,,,but I guess I will never know, untill he acts. I'm so busy having fun that love is not on my mind. At that time.

Hi Val...

Sometimes we dont know that someone pay attention to us if he did not show by acting. But you may take it as learning to know men habit and I hope what happened to you would make you more sensitive to grab men action...

Have a nice day Val dear...

Thanx Smarty, I will have to take my blinckers off then,,,,enjoy your day too,

Hi SmartAss, I agree, it's better to take it easy but The Heart is its own Master. My last relationship was a very strong, crazy, intense, love relationship that Ive never experienced before in my life... and never will again, I felt a very deep connection, very quickly, [not good]and we both were like best friends... but now it is over some months and I am still grieving... I mean, I miss the closeness and having somebody that I am totally 100pc at ease with, that understood me and I understood him, same sense of humour, interests, sex life great.... but yes you are right.
Val, I agree if a man wants you, he should do the running, it might be 2014 but Men are still the Hunters and I am not going to be swayed by any mumbo jumbo equality talk. Men like the chase..or at least I dont chase men.

well said.
btw, where is your new pic? i like your new look better than the one you put here on your profile. i think other bloggers will think the same as mine when they see it.....

Hi GG...

if you read my previous blog about "Sweet Memories", what you ever have in relationship experiences, I also have.. yes dear its soooo sweet... I need quite long time to recover the pain. And really thanks to God that I am fine now, means I can handle all those thing. Trying to forget, that is a must, but we could not remove a histories from our memory, so lets we keep it as nice part of our life..

Hello Mei...

how is your son now? is he getting better? hope he will be fine like before..

well... my new look.. will not change anything.. so let me keep for myself.

Hi Zman...

yes you are right, things instant the look always better than the taste.. in love matter also like that i guess. the look can be cute, in fact he is wolf...

Zman Well said ! A well known saying 'Too hot not to cool down ' comes to mind. I learnt my lesson the hard way, but if we don't learn from our mistakes , then we are in trouble. I do think friendship is very important in a relationship and having similar energy levels. [This will sound mad to younger members of C.S. but if you have a partner who wants to party each night and you like to live in the Day and havent the energy for constantly moving and shaking.... it causes huge problems. It's 30c here and I am finding it very hot as Ozone layer gone..heavy traffic and fumes dont help. Now if I was on a beach, with a breeze....

SmartAss just thinking you have alot of Wisdom for somebody so young.

Thank you GG, I take it as compliment... but life experiences teach me at most.. to be more sensitive person...

@smart,
everything takes time especially relationships romantic or friendships. We are all human beings and we will err but once you find someone who truly accepts as you are faults and all and you do the same then you can truly say you have a relationship.

Hi Bajan..

yes dear, I will not hesitate to declare that I have relationship romantic when I found someone accept me as I am and feel comfortable to be with him...

Ops... CHeavy, no comment from me..

Hi Twinkle

its honor to get your compliment... thank you.

SmartAss you learnt from your past mistakes,,, thats wisdom. I am impulsive and very passionate and that's great in some respects but in others.... its catastrophe. Still I am aware, next time I will watch for the Red Flags and go slow....

SmartAss Reading your previous Blog... the post I wrote above doesnt make sense regarding past mistakes on your part, so forgive me for that... my mistake. Great blog. Sending you hug

Hi Smartassss, nice blog! I hope you are fine!