Losing hope...

@ HanLove - .. Its not easy on-line. When you talk with someone face to face you can both see each other's expressions. When you talk on-line a lot of people misinterpret your writing because you try to keep it simple without over-explaining your meanings but if the other person reads your text and takes it the wrong way then sadly they often just ignore you instead of asking for further explanation or expand on what you said....

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Yeah, my wife and I are a success story of CS. We met here about 18 months ago. We married in March this year.

Amazing comes in many different packages, and not always in the package we think that it should.

This is the case with my wife. She is the perfect woman for me, not perfect as in flawless, but perfect as in well suited.

But when we first met, she didn't think we had any chance of success.

Well, 18 months on, and here we are happily married now for 3 of them.

Don't always judge a book by its cover, just as you don't want to be judged by your cover.

And don't give up hope, but be prepared to be a risk taker (using wisdom though).

JMO.

@ HanLove - Don't lose hope, if you do we will all have to organise a search party to find her again Girl and it would cause too much dispair. successfull on-line dating is is a slow process, keep hope safe....

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@ Zeurich - I wasn't aware that you left, Girl...

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I think we have one success story account here. Problem is most people if they have found someone, why would they stay here on a site for people who haven't found someone? Answer is they don't. They both just quietly turn the no longer needed computer off.