Beds the substitute for the Womb?

by StedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England, UK Jun 2014 670 Views 21 Comments

Why is it we seem to crave for the warmth of our beds when feeling tired or run down..is it a substitute for our mothers womb?

We all feel safe and secure in the warmth of our beds snuggled up, hibernating until the tiredness has passed. Most of us have our bedrooms looking just right building the walls of the womb around the bed to give us the feeling of serenity and peace.

So is the bed a substitute womb?

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Zeurich•Jun 25, 2014•unknown, Utrecht Netherlands

oh bed is my best friend,, I love it so much.

Mimi1973•Jun 25, 2014•Perak,, Malaysia

I'm not sure about the others but it's for me definitely!! I can practically do anything or everything on my bed!!! I mean EVERYTHING !!!

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

It is for many....so why do we not sleep standing up..we sleep in chairs on couches..but all strive to be in the comfort of our own beds....our own purpose built sanctuary...(Mothers Womb?)

Mimi1973•Jun 25, 2014•Perak,, Malaysia

Yup, I would think so, sub-consciously?

Welela•Jun 25, 2014•Secret City, Buskerud Norway

My bed is my place where i can relax and get some sleep after a long sometimes hard day... I love my bed, but I do not see it as a substitute to a mothers womb. Enjoy the rest of your day.

123butterflies•Jun 25, 2014•saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada

Substitute for the womb, but that's what I thought my straight white jacket was for

Hope you have a Gooder

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

Sub-consciously.... but consciously we purposely make our beds..soft..enticing...colourful..practical its our sanctuary

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

Butters the white jackets are for waiters who fail to serve proper refreshment

Beds....we have these for our comfort and joy....

Why not use a hammock or a park bench..you can sleep there..why do we run to our beds ????

123butterflies•Jun 25, 2014•saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada

Sted, a park bench and a hammock are pretty hard to have sex on

so god created bed

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

Butters.....

hammock and park bench depends on the position....

I mean by the river banks, grass...backseat cars...traditional spots...but for SLEEPING we run to our beds...

How many times you been to a location...but it is not your bed your sleeping in...you never have a good nights sleep unless totally wasted...

123butterflies•Jun 25, 2014•saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada

Sted

im in many locations all the time

I always wake up somewhere else and thinking different positions, well that's what my kids say

and I don't sleep well when im wasted, must have a high tolerance to something

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

Being Ex Service have spent time sleeping in many locations too...even when wasted..

,

But overall you are at your happiest when in that sanctuary you call your OWN bed ?

Nicefeet•Jun 25, 2014•Venice, Veneto Italy

I never had sex in my mother s womb. So i dont see my bed as you may. I see my bed as a haven for passion and making love . A place to relax and sleep beside my lovely man. As we cuddle i am as far away from a womb as i can possibly be.

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

I do not see my bed as a gratification tool but more as a sanctuary..where one can be oneself encompassed by the warmth, feeling secure and safe...that is my logic behind the question of Beds a substitute for the Womb...the place where we were secure and safe.

val53•Jun 25, 2014•cape town, Western Cape South Africa

I tried to comment earlier but was cut off,,,,so I kinda feel worried now. I try to avoid my bedroom and especially my bed as much as I can, and I don't know why,,,,I will only go to bed if I feel I can't keep my eyes open anymore,,,,,,every night I sit in the lounge till I feel I can't anymore, sometimes its 2 or 3am, and only then do I go to bed. Is there something wrong with me?

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

Val...no nothing wrong with you sometimes we avoid a space because of something that may be playing on ones mind..but overall you should get back into the routine you once had..in meantime make the best of whats happening now...if in doubt do without..

val53•Jun 25, 2014•cape town, Western Cape South Africa

Staden, I haven't been in a routine in 12 years, this actually started me thinking now, since my husband passed on I have just avoided the bedroom, I would sit anywhere in the house or outside with my book, I would read till all hours of the morning. I have put the books and ereader down for a spell and spend all my free time here on CS. I think my life is pathetic but I don't think I want to change it.

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

Val no life is pathetic sometimes we just get in a rut..but it just seems to extend rather than disappear, many spend time in here to read the blogs or to write something they feel needs saying..but overall it depends on the person to make the necessary changes for themselves..others cannot do it for you no matter how good their intentions.

val53•Jun 25, 2014•cape town, Western Cape South Africa

Thanx Staden, for listening and taking the time to answer!

StedanOP•Jun 25, 2014•Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK

If online will always answer every comment or suggestion...it is only polite..so I thank you also

Wildchild1020•Jul 1, 2014•Labelle, Florida USA

Bed is where you are taught as a child to sleep. So thinking it as your mothers womb is a bit much. For me Bed is a lonely place it is where I lay my head and wish to have an arm around me. Yes it is a lonely place I prefer the couch where I can be against the back for warmth. Yes a bed is a lonely place. Can't compare to a womb.

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