Back to home, A big dicision
by phoenixFHPuxi, Shanghai, China Jul 2014 791 Views 18 Comments
After 10 days treatment at a big hospital, Finally, my Dad's heavily pheumonia (both his lungs ) seemed under control. The next step before me was; to take him back to that nursing hospital or take him back home with me?

According to his current weak body situation (he unable take care of himself), I knew clearly that my duties in the future days... after calculating my abilities of caring and other uncertain affairs would be happened. My wish to fulfill his desire(back home) guided me making this decision at last:take him back living with me.
After a long distance travel, last evening the 120 took us back from Pudong to Puxi and after one night rest, this morning he knew that he was at home and felt happy.

I could feel that from the way he looked at me and his smiling. The familiar surroundings, my face, my voice, my touch and everything can comfort him I know. I am still his dear daughter though he was away from home for more than a year and a half .
In short, the family affections are more than anything else I don't want him feel alone while walking on the last journey of his life.
With Dad last year at nursing hospital.
Busy now , will be back in my free time. Good wishes to you all!
Comments (18)
Family is a wonderful true blessing. Your dad's life will be enriched in your home and yours by having him there. A home full of love.
Have a lovely happy day
I wish you both peace
Don't worry, the 'old man' will be better soon.
He is looking quite good...happy for you both!!
Thanks a lot for your good will. I will do as you said.
Good luck to you! My friend .
Hi,wallops;
Well said! I totally agreed.Thanks for your support!
Thank you! Yes, sometimes feel hard, for my Dad is heavy and need me to move his body on bed ... But I will find a way to overcome it.
Hi,Gary;
Yes,I will follow my heart and capabilities and I know I can do that ...
Best regards to your mum!
Thanks for your kind wishes! Yes, with me my Dad will not feel loneliness, I know what his mean even tough he won't speak.
BTW, I like your handmade carpets so much , wish I could make it one day.
Have a nice day!
Hi, Val;
Yes, agree with your thought, and by the side of my Dad, no any relatives, once I heard him signed to me and said this family is going to end. I know what he mean ... But anyway,I am the only one so far who stand behind him to support and feel pleased.
Glad that you are the same as me. Be kind to elder people is one part of our traditional culture.Isn't it?
Hi ,Calleis;
You are so kind! yes, I am his peace of mind. It's amazing he can eat now by mouth.I am relaxed now and happy for his progress ...
Hei... hei...
Good wishes to you and your family!
Hi, Loulou:
Thanks! Yes, many people said that, he looked younger than his age.but he do getting old more this year,would be treated like a baby,an old baby.
Have a nice day!
My thoughts are with you ,stay strong . I wish you an abundance of love,happiness,laughter and above all the good health to enjoy it all.
Sincerely
Thanks so much for your kind words and concern! I do know my tough circumstance now ... But I will do my best.
My best wishes to you, too. My friend.