Back to home, A big dicision
After 10 days treatment at a big hospital, Finally, my Dad's heavily pheumonia (both his lungs ) seemed under control. The next step before me was; to take him back to that nursing hospital or take him back home with me? According to his current weak body situation (he unable take care of himself), I knew clearly that my duties in the future days... after calculating my abilities of caring and other uncertain affairs would be happened. My wish to fulfill his desire(back home) guided me making this decision at last:take him back living with me.After a long distance travel, last evening the 120 took us back from Pudong to Puxi and after one night rest, this morning he knew that he was at home and felt happy. I could feel that from the way he looked at me and his smiling. The familiar surroundings, my face, my voice, my touch and everything can comfort him I know. I am still his dear daughter though he was away from home for more than a year and a half .
In short, the family affections are more than anything else I don't want him feel alone while walking on the last journey of his life.
With Dad last year at nursing hospital.
Busy now , will be back in my free time. Good wishes to you all!
Comments (16)
Family is a wonderful true blessing. Your dad's life will be enriched in your home and yours by having him there. A home full of love.
Have a lovely happy day
I wish you both peace
Don't worry, the 'old man' will be better soon.
He is looking quite good...happy for you both!!
Thanks a lot for your good will. I will do as you said.
Good luck to you! My friend .
Hi,wallops;
Well said! I totally agreed.Thanks for your support!
Thank you! Yes, sometimes feel hard, for my Dad is heavy and need me to move his body on bed ... But I will find a way to overcome it.
Hi,Gary;
Yes,I will follow my heart and capabilities and I know I can do that ...
Best regards to your mum!
Hei... hei... Your words were verified just now. He can eat!! Next step I will buy a backrest bracket on bed to let him sit up.
Good wishes to you and your family!
Hi, Loulou:
Thanks! Yes, many people said that, he looked younger than his age.but he do getting old more this year,would be treated like a baby,an old baby.
Have a nice day!
My thoughts are with you ,stay strong . I wish you an abundance of love,happiness,laughter and above all the good health to enjoy it all.
Sincerely
Thanks so much for your kind words and concern! I do know my tough circumstance now ... But I will do my best.
My best wishes to you, too. My friend.