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An Identity Crisis?

I’m sure some of the guys will remember a certain foul mouthed girl who visited our mailboxes with an uncanny regularity, inviting us to contact her at her Yahoo address; probably to peddle her own nude photos and to have some dirty talk on Skype. Thankfully she is no longer around and I can only assume that she was deleted.cheering

About the same time an innocent woman from Cape Town joined CS and in her ignorance about scammers and the likes of them, she picked a name very similar to the woman I mentioned earlier.doh

For some reason some guys assumed that Val53 must the same person as the previous Val (I cannot remember the 3-digit number that followed her name) and have been giving her the cold shoulder treatment and even accused her of being the said scammer in private messages.barf

Come guys, we are not like that here on CS. Give her the chance she deserves. She is not the same person as some would like to believe. All she did wrong was to pick a name that rang a bad bell. How was she to know that when she joined?dunno

Val, you have a lot of friends here and we know you’re not a scammer. I hope that the eyes of those who thought so will now open as well.cool
cats meow cats meow

To all you others, a great day and weekend.wave

Comments (29)

Mimi1973
Thanks for writing this blog to clear her name Bob! Good job! thumbs up thumbs up

Val53 is a very dear friend to most of us here! We love you Val!! yay yay yay

hug teddybear
Welela
OH, this is too sad. I am so sorry for you Val, but how could you now as Catfoot say? I hope all of you guys out here understand that Val is a good lady, she would never harm anyone. She is my friend and I do care for her, so please give her a brake will ya?
I love you Val53, keep on smiling. Thank you Cat for telling us about this. yay teddybear hug
Zeurich
That is insane, what for nonsense is that? No one cannot accuse any one as a scammer as far they don't have attempt to do any thing. Seems dog bite is better than that catdunno dunno
namaron
val 53 is just an ordinary girl who deserves not to be taken this way....i for one can tell you that i have had a few conversations with her and she is far from being what you may think she is...and the name she "picked"..happens to be her real name....she deserves the recognition and the understanding that everyone else gets on this site....Val 53 is a real person whos had a hard life as some of us have and only wants to be recognized as a human being searching for what we all are searching for...so..to those who think she is that other person..its time you come forward and recognize her..(wouldnt you think she has it coming?)..i wonder how many messages she got that made her feel this big?....The Valley girl is here to stay...And i stand behind her 110 percent!!
Catfoot
Hi Mimi
I'm sure this can be laid to rest now. Everybiody will know how it is.
hug wave
Catfoot
Hi Wel
Yes, it's been going on for some time. I should have told her about it a long time ago.
hug wave
Angelpepper
applause Hey my buddy Val!......hug
Catfoot
Hi Zeurich
I can recall that you also had such problem at some stage. You will know then how it feels.
hug wave
Angelpepper
uh oh Oh! And thank you, Bob...thumbs up
Catfoot
Thank you Nam,
She certainly did not deserve it.
cheers wave
wenever
well said Catfoot,,I met Val {silly woman} on here and we have had good chats...she is not capable of scamming anyone..she is a good person and I am glad to call her my friend cheers
Catfoot
Hi Angel.
It should have been done earlier. I only realized what was going on whe she posted her last blog.
hug wave
Mimi1973
Oh wait!! Bob, may I add one more thing? Please?? please please please

Val53 I love you enough to share with you my last chocolate cupcake!!! dancing dog dancing dog dancing dog giggle giggle giggle cake cake cake
Catfoot
Hi Wen
This other one operated during your absence if I remember it rightly.
cheers wave
Angelpepper
Bob;
Awwww!..........hug

You should have been done this. Shame on you, Bob!....moping
wenever
Catfoot,,,you are a good friend to come to her aid...this is what friends on the blog family does for one another,,thanks my friendcheers
Catfoot
Angel
I did not know what was going on. I only realized lately.

hug wave
Catfoot
Wen
Aw man it was nothing. I could not leave somebody from my hometown for the wolves to eat.
cheers wave
Angelpepper
Bob;
I got to tell B. about this!.....moping Nah!
Angelpepper
applause Heyyyy! Wenever;
............................. bouquet
Catfoot
Angel,
I'm sure she can read it for herself. She still reads the blogs almost every day.
wenever
@ Angel,,,hello to you to moping
Angelpepper
roll eyes Oh Bob;
It is just not the same, as me telling her. In my own words!.....
Catfoot
Angel
Did you tell her when I told you?
twazzle70
Hello Catfoot,must be unpleasant to be thought of as one of those lowlife scam artists when youre clearly not..Val53 a scammer....Absurd....bouquet wine uh oh
Catfoot
Thanks Twazzle
Anyway, it is in the open now.
Catfoot
Val has asked me to express her gratitude to all who had participated. Thew blog has served its purpose and had now been withdrawn from regular circulation. Thank you to all who had participated.
Zeurich
Please give her my regards too but honestly there are some people here who thinks that they know everything. Giving big words like they can make the world better but who does not even know how to cook or clean a house or at least not to talk about things they don't know properly, honestly those are the people Who is pointing fingers to others the hell of crap...Give my love to her too...teddybear teddybear teddybear
Catfoot
Hi Zeurich
I'm sure she read your message with gratitude.
hug wave

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