To My Friend....

We've been a close friend for over a year now. I know you confused when your new girlfriend wants you to stay away from me. So, I'll make it easy for you. As much as it brings sad inside, I'll walk away and howl my goodbye to you.

You don't need to worry about me. You don't need to be here to comfort me, cause I'll be fine.
Just go and be happy. And I wish you all the best and your wish full filled.


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teddybear teddybear Be strong girl. There are will be many doors open for you!wine wine Take care!
Fallen hug I hope whoever this is intended for is reading it. You have given him a `Get out of this GUILT FREE card`

I hope you are not carrying any sadness around with you sad flower

Like Z, just said... stay strong. THE BEST is yest to come yay

Whoever you are meant to be with is out there waiting for you hug teddybear hug
Fallen,

So many unclear things in your story.

He is your close friend and he has a lover. Why his lover wants him to stay away from you? Are you competing with her to get his attention?

You are putting your story in a blog and welcome comments and it entice many questions for me :
- do you kbow his girlfriend?
- who exist first for him? You or her?

Because it will be easy and clear if you know him first long before he met his girlfriend then you SHOULD not say good bye. He is your good friend and his girlfriend is your friend. Unless you and his girlfriend doesn't like to each other.

If his girlfriend exist before you know him mean their relationship is older than your friendship with him. And yes you SHOULD go away and leave them in peace because if you come as friend you should know both and be friend to both and his girlfriend should not have any worried. Unless you are attracted by him, even you know he has girlfriend and keep approaching him in the name of friendship than I guess you know what you are....

So, if you are his real friend who exist long before his girlfriend, please stay and talk to both of them, don't sacrifice your amity and your time in knowing him.
Virgo.... Jealousy is bad but relationship without jealousy is also bad. As long as it is possessive, being jealous to the lover is recommended.
*as long as it is NOT possessive..... Sorry miss one word.
one needs a lot of trust in a relationship to make it last ...by showing that women she doesn't trust him ..is really bad , and spells doom ...wave
Hehehe Virgo.... Will trust last by regular tease ?grin

Jealousy is a bodyguard of trust.... :)

Not a possessive one ya Virgo....
like what is she afraid of ....that he could have a better time with fallen wolf , is this friends new girl friend that shallow ? is she going to hit him every time he looks at another women when walking together or while out driving ...laugh rolling on the floor laughing
thats what friends are supposed to do
Hi wall !!!wave

I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...

You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).

Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
Hi wall !!!wave

I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...

You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).

Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
Hi wall !!!wave

I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...

You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).

Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
Hi wall !!!wave

I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...

You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).

Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
Hi FW, wave I think you are doing the right thing. If you are a friend, you have your friends welfare in mind. If he started a relationship (I presume she doesn't know you personally) it will be difficult for her to know your "intentions" and she will be apprehensive. Give them the best possible start. If their relationships ends because of you, your friendship might end as well.

I was in the same position with a friend in RL and it did solve itself eventually (when I was with someone and "off the scene"). We are good friends at this stage and I spend a good bit of time with them and their kids.

You do sound positive on here FW, hope all continuous going well for you. bouquet
I'll be your best friend "wolfie", if you wish. I would be honored.

hug
Hallo Dedo, KN & Drago wave Thanks for stoppin by, hope you all have a good Sunday.
Something rwong with my connection.... Sorry guys for duplication of messages !!!
That Kitty is probably the best friend to have in my opinion. I am still missing mine. One month still gone. You have lots of friends you probably didn't even know of.
;-}
If he does not cherish you, care about you, then let him leave, you deserve better!comfort
@ Drago: u know this kitty needs home, too bad u far away moping moping

@ Spring: friends comes and go..beside like they said " Nothing Last Forever!" So, I might be sad today, but maybe I wont tomorrow drinking
Hi Fallen
Sometimes these things happen for the better. Don't worry too much. Another day brings another friend.
hug wave
Dear Wolfie, I would be happy to adopt the kitty. Just stop by any time. You'll cheer up in no time at all.

hug

cool
Cats make lovely friends.
fallen
Better to escape the drama and find new friends...perhaps she is just insecure...your new feline friend looks adorable...and as a cat owner...they are good to have around!!wine
It's pretty clear to me. You have a male buddy. He now has a GF and she's jealous.

Your making the right choice to let her have him completely even though your relationship is not a love relationship. If he's a good friend one day he may be back and you can pal around some more!
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