To My Friend....
We've been a close friend for over a year now. I know you confused when your new girlfriend wants you to stay away from me. So, I'll make it easy for you. As much as it brings sad inside, I'll walk away and howl my goodbye to you.You don't need to worry about me. You don't need to be here to comfort me, cause I'll be fine.
Just go and be happy. And I wish you all the best and your wish full filled.
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I hope you are not carrying any sadness around with you
Like Z, just said... stay strong. THE BEST is yest to come
Whoever you are meant to be with is out there waiting for you
So many unclear things in your story.
He is your close friend and he has a lover. Why his lover wants him to stay away from you? Are you competing with her to get his attention?
You are putting your story in a blog and welcome comments and it entice many questions for me :
- do you kbow his girlfriend?
- who exist first for him? You or her?
Because it will be easy and clear if you know him first long before he met his girlfriend then you SHOULD not say good bye. He is your good friend and his girlfriend is your friend. Unless you and his girlfriend doesn't like to each other.
If his girlfriend exist before you know him mean their relationship is older than your friendship with him. And yes you SHOULD go away and leave them in peace because if you come as friend you should know both and be friend to both and his girlfriend should not have any worried. Unless you are attracted by him, even you know he has girlfriend and keep approaching him in the name of friendship than I guess you know what you are....
So, if you are his real friend who exist long before his girlfriend, please stay and talk to both of them, don't sacrifice your amity and your time in knowing him.
Jealousy is a bodyguard of trust.... :)
Not a possessive one ya Virgo....
I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...
You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).
Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...
You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).
Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...
You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).
Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
I don't know Virgo. Like I said "there is unclear thing in her story", why I asked fallen wolf if she knows his girlfriend or not...
You are a man, I'm a woman. You talk for fallen's friend (the boy) and I'm talking for the girlfriend. Fallen is the subject (read; problem).
Based on mine and many other women experience, men will see his partner less nice even bad once he is attracted by other woman.
I was in the same position with a friend in RL and it did solve itself eventually (when I was with someone and "off the scene"). We are good friends at this stage and I spend a good bit of time with them and their kids.
You do sound positive on here FW, hope all continuous going well for you.
;-}
@ Spring: friends comes and go..beside like they said " Nothing Last Forever!" So, I might be sad today, but maybe I wont tomorrow
Sometimes these things happen for the better. Don't worry too much. Another day brings another friend.
Better to escape the drama and find new friends...perhaps she is just insecure...your new feline friend looks adorable...and as a cat owner...they are good to have around!!
Your making the right choice to let her have him completely even though your relationship is not a love relationship. If he's a good friend one day he may be back and you can pal around some more!