Are we Men Or Mice?

Every so often we see a blog asking where are all the REAL men on this site and when I read some of the blogs posted by men, I have to agree with them .blushing

And I know that men also have feelings and that we should express them but does that include asking for sympathy? confused

Ladies, I know you won’t but please skip the next 3 paragraphs.laugh

Come on guys, we are men; not mice. We don’t walk around complaining about how hurt we are and how lonesome or sensitive we are. We accept help when offered and may ask for help when needed but we never ask for sympathy. We want women to like us; not to feel sorry for us.comfort

I’d rather be disliked than being pitied. Rejection is easier to handle when you simply lift the anchors and sail when the tide goes out; without a 21 gun salute. There are other harbors to offer a safe anchorage. What happened to our self respect? Let’s be the men we are and act like it.detective

If it is sympathy we ask for then sympathy is all that we shall ever get and it won’t last for very long either. Women eventually get tired of listening to our whinges.scold

Next time, before you write one of those cry baby blogs or comments, think a bit of what women really think when they write those sweet comments on your blog. Women are softer and more compassionate than men. They don’t always say those nice things because they like you. Sometimes it is merely to console you because they feel sorry for you. Is that what you want; pity?blues

This is a dating site and women come here to find somebody they can look up to, respect and lean on when the need arise. Somebody they can depend on when the going gets tough; not a cry baby who needs a dry nappy all the time.doh
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A great and wonderful day to you all.wave
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I know I cannot always have what I want, but that does not make me want it less. Otherwise I’m easy to please, flexible, accommodating and forgiving. I cool down as fast what I get cross. I hate it when people lie to me. I’m hooked to my laptop, but [read more]

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