What if..

You get in touch with a person that is very nice and you get along very well like you were friends the whole life. You know the other person heart and mind so you know has good feelings. Would you mind if when you meet eachother he or she is not so attractive or sexy like it was in your mind? Would that make you change your feelings?
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MaruQ, I know this might sound cliché but to me, looks do not matter. The connection and attraction are more important, well....at least to me wine
Hi Mimi. I agree with you.handshake
I, too, agree. Looks is not everything. I want to see his heart instead.
Well PR I think thats the way we women are thumbs up
Look is relative. I'm more attracted to something eyes can't see or hand can't touch. But I believe every one has their own standard. Look, as a matter of fact, will also speak.

For me it depends. If he is for a friend, good or best friend, he could be a blind or invalid but if he is for someone I will life in the same roof, sleeping on the same bed, his look would come after his hearth brain manner and education.
Hi Maru! That's why IMO one shouldn't focus on a LDR, as mostly the two when they meet view a different person then, and everyone is afriaid of taking unnecessary efforts which end in disappointments.

Whereas friendship is always welcome, especially with someone in the distance, No obligations, guilt, tragedies, expectations (e.g. When does a message come in?), no greater feelings. And one can even end it any time by still staying kind with each other. hug wave
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KNthumbs up well said ,100% agree.hug
There is an argument that says .... meet quickly, that way you will be able to ascertain whether what you imagined is really true.

likewise

It is said... take your time, get to know each other via an interactive program where you can see each other and talk on video.

Horses for courses, both have their merits, however in an LDR the more familiar you are with the person the more likely that person is to be the same when you meet.
we all say looks is not important but deep down you all know it is !!! confused
Hi everyone, usually I just read, barely ever comment: personally I think chemistry between the two of you is more important than looks. If you feel good around someone, and there is a connection emotionally, mentally and physically (and on the off chance at a Soul level - yeahy for you ) then looks are not so important. After all, beauty is nothing more than a by-product of natural selection
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I'm just a very optimistic person who believes in real love. I'm honest and kind and I spend most of my time working but still keep the faith there is my soulmate somewhere. My English is not so bad so I would like to get friends too so don't hesitat [read more]

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