Please read before you contact me, I like a guy
who actually reads a profile and NOT just ogle pics! Please do not contact me if you LACK MANNERS, examples are: standing me up on a date without cancelling, contacting me wanting to meet then never trying to meet, having long phone conversations or going out on a date where in both cases it seems it's going well and then drop out of sight, without sending me an email saying we are not a match (why would be nice but, sigh, not expected). I do NOT mind if one wanted to start out as friends first so if you do not feel romantically inclined towards me that shouldn't preclude us getting to know each other. I do have good manners thus I answer EVERY email (but then again I am not deluged with them as say, a 20 year old nubile blonde!) Also NO smokers please, I put it there but still some men do not bother to read the facts and are just looking at the pics...I wanted to write much more about me in my profile but since there is a character limit (and NO, I am not as long winded as this, I actually AM a good listener) I have to post it here so hope it can stay, if you live a long way away and want to just chat, email, etc. please, PLEASE do NOT waste both our times writing, I am not looking for a "fantasy" relationship but a REAL one with someone I can actually go out and DO things with. And especially do NOT write me if you are in another country and waiting to get back to the U.S. (if you ARE in another country sign up in couchsurfing and maybe I'll visit you ;)!
What am I doing with my life
I'm at a crossroads, not rich but financially independent, thinking of traveling worldwide, with nothing tying me down, but I would like to be in a loving relationship so open to ALL possibilities...
What I like to eat
Although I would LIKE to eat a healthier more vegetarian diet with no sugar (so don't mind guys that are), but hey, I'm Chinese and we eat everything with 4 legs except the kitchen table and sigh, unfortunately sweets don't taste like vegetables which would make it MUCH easier to give it up.
Ideal First Date
We can always take that clicheish walk on the beach and if you so desire followed by happy hour (i.e. cheap) drinks and appetizers nearby or if you want a longer or more profound discussion with me, we can go to a restaurant that I have coupons for-my way of going Dutch-LOL- as I don't like coffee dates (I'm a chintzy not a cheap date!)
Or we can skip food and go on a completely gratis date, just the walk, art gallery openings (with free food-my two favorite four letter words beginning with an F that's non vulgar!) an outdoor concert, ethnic festival, or a museum's free day, although I shall NOT turn my nose up at men who like to dine in a five star restaurant and going to the theater afterwards!
Hobbies, etc. we can discuss when we meet, which I hope we do, am NOT looking for a penpal, so guys far away who contact me, I will go out and meet you!
Comments (16)
"actually wants to read and get to know about a woman than just admire her photo."
Only way to cut down on unwanted mail is to put filters into your mailbox.
However, since I am in a relationship and I'm here for the blogs so I didn't "view" you for the reason that it would not be proper. But today I took the liberty since you came on the blogs.
Nice meeting you and I hope you stay on the blogs because you look and sound like a nice person! Maybe that's why my curiosity was piqued!
Try blocking everyone except North America.
I think I have to meet you.
Jack Martin, OSA
The above is what you have typed under your photo.
You only have yourself to blame.
This bunny is still around!
You sure its a 'she' bunny?
Yesssss!!! 90% sure
I spotted something with my very keen eyes!
the bucket list for number 6. But a committed teacher partner must have more than tangential knowledge, especially of ideograms. Familiarity with ancient characters, and their evolution would be a plus. And at our ages, health and groundedness TRUMP most looks.