why oh why

r there so many people on here without a pic...i thought that was just for newcomers till they post their pic...but some people never do so....it is early morning...and so why this blog...hmmmm...maybe cause of right now there r so many blogging here on page one that do not list a pic....confused confused
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4 peeps....has it always been like that...what is the reasoning behind never doing so....i thought this is a dating site and the point is to attract others....how can one do so without any chemistry....doesn.t everyone need a visual....hmmm...take this further to hollywood....would celebrities can get attention at all w no pics...how could anyone or why would anyone b interested in such a celeb...imagine going to a movie and all there was.....was just words upon a screen....and no voices or pics...how long would that last....would they still get rich that way......lol all the photographers would b put out of biz....take this further....what would happen to the economy...photographers....newpapers...magazines the net...without pics or voices....how would that b entertainment....lol...the whole thing would collapse....
Sweetie wave

Some say it is for privacy reasons (their occupation or the wife/husband might see it etc giggle ).
Sweetie wave

The only guy I wanna attract is Bob and I've already got him wink

Now, I just need to entice him a bit more so that he would move the date forward to come and visit me grin
anyways that is not the point...the point is about attraction...of course we already know about all of the flimsy excuses....i mean does that approach help to get a date....yay
long ago i have seen the following procedure in a dating site.

at the time of registration, you are supposed to write the code ( sent by the site ) in a piece of paper and show it next to your face and email the single photo ( your face + code written on a paper ) to them.
heya Mimi....good luck on getting ur dude....seriously....i hope he sends u pics so u have an idea of what he looks like....
am waiting also for nam and mc to jump on this and tear it all apart....
let us expose the unexposed lol....r they hotties who would get beseiged and just do not want attention...lol
do people fall in love w their pen pals who never send a pic....hmmm....take this further....
Sweetie, we send pics of each other almost every day. Just out of bed pic, going to bed pics, just got back from work pics, going to work pics. You named, we've got it!! wine
@mimi

now that is what i call a real picnic ( pic-nic )!
no not the guys on here....they seem great...i am referring to the ones i meet in real life....they have all come out of the woodwork since my hubbie died....
AJ

giggle giggle giggle

We enjoy our picnics very very much wink
like...heya baby get w me....go out w me so i can monopolize the conversation about myself...should get u to fall for me that way sweetiefireball....yeah baby....i shall just talk about me and my dead wife on a pedestal....she was the greatest....over and over and over and over....doh does that approach work w other womendoh check out my poll on that latest date w one...yikes....
Lol some girls have all the luck giggle
Guess we'll never know Sweetie cos the successful ones probably pack up and leave the building conversing
sigh sigh i knew i had the right approach when younger...live it up....marry my hottie....go for it....entering the dating world after such a thing....i feel like i am buried alive....what do i need to do go back to south america where the men r hot blooded and chase after u....in fact am still in touch w a real successful hot blooded guy from argentina....but we r and always shall just b friends...hmmmm those wonderful weeks in s america...drinking matte and shooting the breeze w him on top of the sunroof...am awaiting the day he shows up in the usa...we do discuss....the dinners i cooked and the wonderful malbec wine....remember the malbec at the partay last week mimi.....what a nite!!
well it probably has a lot to do w living in one of the top three dying cities of the usa....i mean i am counting the days till my youngest graduates high school and i can leave this forsaken place...that is why i am on here...and am looking...i mean...really what kind of guy would want to come here...yikes...all of the graduates at ndu...come to school here...well they have their own city....but once they graduate boom they r out of here....no one stays to try to build it up....this is not even my home state...i was brought here by my hubbie cause it was his...he lived here and is buried here...maybe if i was an old broad...but being in mid life....ugh!!! i need to travel again....maybe i should go to argentina and transform that friendship into something!!! or go back to Rome! or anywhere but here....help
22 months to freedom.....till he graduates....putting my career and my aspirations and desires....off till my son is done...for him...i think i am gonna burst!!...do not really want to set up things around here...when i have one foot out of the door....yeah one foot...22 mos and counting folks.....countdown.
Sweetie

Rome sounds fun! Maybe you should consider it seriously once your youngest leaves the nest.

I know how you feel Sweetie, I really do hug

I'm caught in the same predicament, waiting for my 2 kids to finish their high school before I could join anyone anywhere sigh
Hi Sweetie, you are sounding pretty desperate over there wave

Hey with your looks and figure you shouldn`t have anything to worry about applause

I used to be like you about the pics.. but then I have actually met some lovely people who didn`t have pics up and some still don`t on the blogs and I kind of feel like I know them. I guess I like them because I get to know the personality and that is what is most important to me. Of course you have to find someone attractive that is natural but sometimes the person becomes attractive the more you KNOW them..and then when you see them the looks don`t seem to matter the same.

Having said that I am only looking for friendship so it doesn`t matter to me what someone looks like anyway. I think it different with personal mail too. With the blogs we are friends to hang out.

Good luck in your search.. you are a lovely sweet lady who has a lot to offer someone. hug teddybear hug
thanks ladies.....mimi yes we r in the same boat....maybe when we r both set free it will b a race and a chase to get the english chap....just kidding....i know u have Bob....or is that Robert and it is the same....ur biz and i respect that....thanks for empathizing.....
Sweetie, what English chap is this? confused dunno I am now very curious daydream thinking.. who could this person be cool
Wallops, she's referring to Sparky!!! giggle giggle giggle

Btw Sweetie, yup Bob and Robert, the same wine
What is it about some people having no profile pic that bothers you?
heya since u live in the uk ....go find the stuffy ole english chap that is if mimi doesnt already have....and leave me alone...thank u very much.....wow
Hmm, widower #19 here. All equipment seems to be working properly. Does CS work? Probably. I have been in contact with a few (and still am) that are hot enough to generate enough of a connection IMO that if we were closer we would have met by now. Alas distance exists as do Visa requirements. Sigh, someday I am going to win the Mega Millions and hop on a plane and visit 4 or 6 of the honeys I'be E-met here that have migrated to easier communications medium.
Jac applause applause applause

May I offer you some cupcakes??? peace

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Yay, thank you Mimi. I've not long since been gifted some cyber cheesecake. I won't be able to move soon. laugh

I hope you and yours are all well. bouquet
The kids and I are doing great!!

How about your girls??
Ken wave

Good luck in your Mega Millions. cheering cheering cheering wine
Yeah, my girls are as noisy and troublesome as ever. Always a good sign.

It's nice to have them back here and we're having lots of fun and laughs together, thank you.

My granddaughter never stops all day long, though! laugh

hug
Awww....Jac, lovely to hear that hug

I'd be away for a week to meet up with some friends in Singapore. The kids would have to fend for themselves! giggle giggle giggle

They should be ok, as long as there are enough food in the fridge, money, in case there's not enough food in the fridge wink and most importantly, WIFI!!!! grin
Jac,

Son is younger by 18 months. Big sister will keep an eye on her lil' brother and his obsession with online games. doh
Theres a reason for having a picture and theres a reason for not......."Only the shadow knows why"......
woo ahooo.....just got back on had to go back to sleep and left this running....
along w losing a spouse u lose a lifestyle....friends go south and north lol...anyways....i know i need to travel.....heya next weekend shall b back home up north and am going to try to arrange of all things a junior high reunion...those were my closest friends...this girl needs to have some fun...
"Girls Just Wanna Have Fun"....Cyndi Lauper
Hi Jac, Miclee and Nam wave

See Mimi and Jac are having a good chin wag and catching upconversing Miclee fessing up to not having pic up for a while.. where you shy? blushing and Nam.. happy with or without pics.. grin Sweetie recovered after her nap applause and ready to party shimmy

All is well in blogland... or this blog anyway teddybear teddybear teddybear
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