Zen Vs Cacophony
No cacophony for a day. I am seriously doing a Zen blog. Don’t count on me to be serious for long though. Cacophony will return shortly.
In the matters of the heart longing for another’s love can mostly bring frustrations. When a person falls in love and finds out that his/her feelings are not reciprocated he/she can become frustrated.
In this world it is impossible for all our desires to be fulfilled. No matter who we are, what we do we still experience frustrations.
Some people fall in love at first sight and remain happy for the rest of their lives.
Some fall in love at first sight, only to find out it is just infatuation and regret later.
Oh! Some people fall in love with CS and remain happily ever after there too.
But no matter what it is, love takes time to grow. So, if the seed of love did not root or blossom immediately or withered quicker than a season change, a person should not be disheartened.
In a such situation when love is not returned with love, either we can conduct ourselves maturely and slowly draw his/her attention to kindness and consideration.
Or
We can be selfish and unreasonable in expressing our feelings.
All human emotions are subjected to change.
If we know how to conduct ourselves maturely, the other person may begin to appreciate the good qualities and maturity in us and develop warm feelings. But this can take time or never happen. No guarantees for matters of the heart.
Then there must be a limit in trying to win the heart of another, especially when the answer is a clear “NO”. We should not go to extremes in expressing love. We must always give the other the right to make his/her own decision and respect it. There is no law that one’s love to another must be reciprocated. In a situation when love is not returned with love it is best for either parties to wish all the best for the future and part as friends without causing any hindrance to their own personality or make a nuisance of themselves.
Did I make any sense??????
Always resignation and acceptance. Always prudence and honour and duty. Elinor where is your heart????
Jane Austen (Sense and Sensibility)
Here is mine!!!!
Thank you!!!
Wish you a fun filled day!!!!
Comments (24)
Where is your lovely photo....
Are you talking of yourself here...unrequited love...sure, that hurts....
Don't even think of getting your dictionary out. They both mean nothing much.
Two peaceful cats sleeping without a worry in their life. No need for love, no need for a love story, just Zen in all its beauty.
Can it be any better?
Nice to see you!!!!
It does mean a step forward for you and your kids, I hope you have someone giving you a hand getting through all of this.
I find sometimes a good cry and going to bed early with a package of chocolate helps.
I actually think that some who think they are in love are actually infatuated. Love is very much a growing thing and develops into something beautiful when allowed to.
Love also is selfless, so anyone pressing another does not love that person.... or they would respect their feelings.
So lovely to see so many of my lovely friends on here today.
KN where is your pic????? I mean you look good on here of course...but you look so much like so many others... I like to see your big smiley beautiful face.
Have a great day everyone... love you
Just have to keep a low profile for a while.
Thank you!!!! So good to see you all!!!
Wallops! Love the new pic!!
An interesting blog. Not much to add other than that I believe falling in love is always a temporary infatuation. If it is reciprocated and there is enough common grounds to sustain it, it will develop into something bigger. If it is not reciprocated it will fade away or become an obsession. JMHO.
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Man goes far away or naer but God never goes far-off
he is always standing close at hand ,and even if he
cantnot stay within he goes no further than the door.
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