Making Decision... Easy ?
many saying said about life that life is not always fair, life is about choice, life is not an easy thing to live. especially when we have to make a choice, make a decision between 2 or 3 important things in life. for our future. whether you will be happy or sad, whether you will be succeed or lose.making a decision is not as easy as talking... not as easy as give advice or suggestion when friend comes to us with dilemma and have to make a choice. for me this is just about a courage to make a decision. i can say this bcos many times i was in this situation in my job. why a manager get well paid? bcoz they bear a big responsible for any decision they made....
but in daily life, some people keep considering what the best to do between 2 choices if they have to choose only 1. spend a lot of time and put themselves even deeper in confusion. this situation will not good for them, can be affecting their healthy and mood. but some people can make a decision and make a choice pretty fast as they know what they want and they know what the best for them.
So, why people prefer to stay in confusing and still cant make a decision which one they will choose? it can be many reason. in this matter, I cant say about encouragement bcoz it is not about yes or not, right or wrong, but according to me it would be more about what the next will happen if they choose this or that.
when a friend come to me to share and say that they are confuse as they are forced to make a choice.. I maybe will advise them to make a list of plus and minus between 2 choices, so they will know what is the best between 2.
but how if the case about love ? about feeling ? do you think by making "plus and minus list" will be helpful?
for example : if I were one of the choices, if I love him..I might leave him for his happiness. I will not let him make "plus and minus list" as it would not be fair for both of us.
what is your opinion? what do you think?
hope you dont have to make any choice in your life... as you know what the best for you.
Comments (14)
We all have to make a decision everyday. whether its the right one or not! We all even make mistakes. That's just life! No one is perfect. Something's can be made by list! Something's can't be. You has to think quick! Especially in an emergency!
I make my decisions and haven't regretted any majorly. Not to sweat the small stuff forever helps as well.
Asking people for advice is one thing, but if doing so, their opinion should be thought over or I wouldn't bother asking them.
If something doesn't work in the love department, I think making a decision rather sooner than later and sticking with it helps - it's never nice when things don't work out and it does take time to get over some things, but being hang-up about someone forever never did anyone any good.
Life has never been fair but then nobody promised us that it will be fair.