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I have a question here,I mean as nowadays if a guy tries to please you, they will still do the same as the young guys in their 20s?Will they still arrange lots of activities, buy you presents, and try to gain your heart. Or most of them would be too tired or motivated to chase after you.How much would be the percentage of the two type in your idea?

I just travelled back from emirates. So nice temperature there, winter is the best season there. But I still have other things to do in beijing, so I stayed a while there, I travelled back.
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I think of this question as I notice that most people in their 35+ already lose the interest in thinking of a lot of activities to persue the person they seem to like.

I also begin to realize people need know where they are in the society, and also they need know which kind of partner they would need.
Thank you Ed, your answer coincides my feeling. The reason why I would think of this question is that: I feel guys after 35+ tend to simplify their dating skill. But there are some guys who will still think of creating some nice quality time for the ladies.

In fact, I don't know which is better. Because even a guy who is very carefully create nice quality dating moments does not mean he is a good partner in future. It is a dilemma.
Young men are full of BS, so are many young women. Older folks often know what works, what is good, what isn't, because they already been down many of the trails. They also (usually by late 30s, early 40s, have started seeing friends or associates dying off. This fosters a growing awareness in most that life doesn't contain enough time for BS in their relationships. Some don't get that, but most do.

So when an older person dates, yes, we do go to nice places, show the date a decent (hopefully good, but never less than decent) time and do the things we know work and hopefully we present a minimum of BS in our speak as we know our intended is probably just as tired of things that weren't fun or which were pointless. Older folk also know there are many others out there and if the person you are dating is still stuck in their 20s and all the baggage and nonsense associated with that, well, like a streetcar, there will be someone else along shortly. It isn't necessarily that the older person is bolder, more that they see no advantage in wasting time, as they might have done 15 or more years ago.
Thank you for all your answer. I know it is not easy to find a partner.
It is easy to find a partner.

I had to look at your profile again because I had to confirm that we could speak on the same level. It shows that you are Christian Protestant so it will be alright to make this comment.

Jesus Christ said we must be equally yoked. I don't know if you attend church or not but you may find your equal in church. Have you tried that?
Thank you Ed,that is a good suggestion. I did attend church. But as I am in Beijing or emirates, most of the time, I am around by chinese or Asian guys,not many westerners around me. I am not interested in Asian guys. There is nothing wrong with Asian guys, I just have my personal preference.

But I wish to sort out my life. AS I plan to arrange my daughter to study either in USA or New zealand. I will accompany her there. So I will love to look for my partner locally.
I am contacting the agent now, and get ready for the bills,Ian! I need accompany my little daughter to study abroad. I would not accept her to be there by herself.
She is only 10 years old. Her dad was not good at school, who told me he had brought his kept bird to school, when the classes began, he would tie his bird on his chair, and in the break, he would walk around the playground with his bird on his arm. But I was a good student. So my daughter need us to dicipline her. Well, now she is good at school, but you know kid.
I finished with her dad. I have been brought up my daughter with my mum. In fact, I mean me or my mum would accompany my daughter to study abroad. She is not able to dicipline herself that well, as she is only 10 years old.
Well please let us know what country you decide on for her, and of course it will gladden the heart of some CS men either way. :)
I prefer usa, as usa do provide better education. And also usa is a much bigger and more active market or place. There is no doubt about it/
I have talked with the agent. I have been teaching my daughter English all these days. I am preparing for her to be able to study abroad next year. then I wish I coul go abroad to be with her.
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