what Has Turned My Life Around

After many years of struggling and being down more days then not I have realized the secret which has turned my life around and this might be worth you giving a try as well, in the past everything seemed to go wrong for me in so many ways. I was not a happy child living in abuse, then after a 20 year abusive marriage I suddenly found myself abandoned by my high school sweetheart, my ex decided she wanted to be single again she did not even have the decency to discuss this with me or tell me to my face she was moving on without me. One day I came home to a empty home, I mean empty she was gone and most of what we owned so I was all alone and starting over out of no choice of my own.

It has taken me more years then I wish to share to finally find the secret to happiness and being content with my life, finally one day after years of being depressed and negative I decided I am going to take control of my life instead of the negative things taking control of me. I started by researching self-improvement resources, what turned my life around was not so difficult to figure out but much harder to do. I started catching my negative thoughts and actions, stopped and focused on the positive side of every situation. After many months this started to become more natural for me, now many years later I see the positive things in my life much more then the negative things without even having to think about it. Oh I still am hit with many obstacles in my life even today, actually probably more now then ever but I can overcome them much quicker by just being more positive and dwelling less on them.

I truly urge you to give this system a try, it will not be easy at first for you by any means. As people most of us just seem to more naturally dwell on the negative things life throws at us, but once you program yourself to be more positive you will be amazed at how much happier and content you will be with your own life.

Have Faith In Yourself And Amazing Things Will Happen In Your Life In The Near Future.

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applause applause cheering banana head banger dancing yay AWESOME REVELATION JEFF... Thanks for sharing, your words are so well needed. Appreciate you, because now you have overcome another obstacle IN YOUR LIFE JOURNEY, you came out of silence, went publicly with your demons, now they can't be a burden anymore. When we expose the demons, no longer keeping silent, they (demons of troubles, heartaches, and pains) go away, and you beloved, have done just that. YOU ARE AN OVERCOMER! PRAISE THE LORD FOR YOU AND THE WORKS AND GRACE OF FAITH!

callie
I can fully relate to this .. the exact same situation. I have learned to deal with stress. with depression by watching youtube videos and information for self growth..

Today im have a more positive idea of life. Im more easily to forgive and a lot more positive ideas into my head.


I've read about "changing the negative cd " that our subconscious mind has recorded with the years.


I treat myself much better and people are starting to notice it.


Keep up the good work
Jeff, that is great! You are the exception. It seems when most people get down, they like lying in the "fur lined rut".

Mid, also congrats to you for doing something about your situation!



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I went fishing one day and I usually stay out there all day...I had a 6 month old son at the time and the wife at home as usual.....I cant ezplain it but after maybe a couple of hours I had this feeling To go home...That I did...When I got back there was a moving van there and the house was basically cleaned out and my wonderful Motherin law slipped out the back way with my son...The cops came and told me They dont want any trouble..or else....That night I sat in an empty house...My wife was gone and the my Son was gone ..I was all alone.........What a sad and empty feeling of hurt that was.....I said a prayer that night ..and to cut a long story short...I was led to him 10 miles away where Ive never been before and there was my son in the arms of a 12 yr old girl walking down the street......I grabbed him from her...She screamed and I took off....I got custody of my son and thats what got me to where I am today...Yes I agree jeff...You gotta keep on keepin on no matter what........This saying should help you out Jeff....Your Wife had to leave to make room for the woman who is on the way...All you gotta do ...is wait.............detective
Thank you for sharing your story of how you overcame such sadness and pain to finding happiness and peace. It was inspirational. So sorry that you had to go through such an awful time... You too Nam. Glad you can now move on with your life and find true love.
Wishing you much success teddybear
Jeff,
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And Welcome To The Blogs....handshake
Good read...positive action taken resulted in better life! Congratulations and keep on in positive direction!handshake yay
That happened to me in 1995! I'm glad I finally made the turn in my life!

Good for you and so get a move on, brother! We guys got things to do! It's it & that's that!!
I had a similar life experience.

I just ignored the past and did things my way.

U would b amazed at how well it works if u r just u.
Hi Jeff,
handshake Wonderful to hear you overcame.
I agree with Callie you are an overcomer! Continue to keep it up!
blessings
Shay
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Christian man and a extremely easy person to get along with, very positive about life and I have faith everything in our lives will work out for us for the best if we are patient. I am very well mannered by nature, I am willing to consider relocating [read more]

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