Killer distance

For any long distance online dating site,distance is the biggest killer,and one knows, the chances of meeting a prospective partner is very slim or next to impossible...... because it involves lots of money and time management....
Its easy to meet someone from your own area than on dating site...
So what is that ,which makes us all come here looking for our soul mates ,whom we may never meet in our lifetime.........
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Hi Niayana, I'm experiencing the exact thing at the moment. sad flower

However, someone did come and meet me not so long ago. He's coming again early next year.

He's just someone I like but I hope to meet Bobikins one day soon smitten
HI Mimi,you are one of the lucky few

Hope you meet your Bobkins soon..
It's not if one is moneyed...

Be patient...they say, patience has its own rewards. Wish you the best!
Iotaoo,the rich don't need a dating site
Well, I like hearing how others feel about some stuff. I think I've made some friends here. I also note that while we see some success stories, I have also hear of (mostly in email) some visits that turned out not so good. Broken promises to marry, assaults, discovery they are a bum (or the female equivalent), etc.
Ken ,I have heard of more failures than success...
Niayana
If you are sounding low today? Just asking..cheers
Iotaoo,thanks for the concern ......

yes, I am feeling down in the dumps.
Niayana

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I viewed you intentionally to learn your taste, your likes and other things. You seem to be a strong woman. I think its just a passing phase and hope you shall win it over early. I wish it to happen soon.bouquet
I reckon it takes a huge effort to make a long distance relationship work,i was in one for a few months when i first joined this site,things were great but ultimately one has to meet in person and i dont think skype or any similar media comes close to real life encounters,the lady and i did plan to meet but the distance obstacle was very difficult,did i go there,did she come here,the expense etc...But the main obstacle was the kids,,i have a child and so did she,if things were to eventually work out one of us would probably had to move in with the other,,both children were ten and eleven respectively,,moving to a different country,education,friends,,it was too much to put young children through such upheaval and if ultimately things didnt work out then that wouldnt have been a great scenario either,without children involved then it may have been a different story dunno Im sure some people can make ldr work,but very difficult in my view..If one has the freedom and the money to come and go as they please then the chances of things working out are greater i feel........Tiz a shame as theyre will be people who could be great together but will never ever get the chance to meet...I think,,maybe..dunno wine
twazzle70
the distance obstacle was very difficult,did i go there,did she come here,the expense etc...But the main obstacle was the kidsthumbs up the real issue neatly addressed.
Iotaoo cheers
We see that a lot here. Single or divorced but with children. Another Visa obstacle. I don't even think many realize the cost or extra paperwork of bringing a kid here. The woman would require a K1 or K3 Visa depending on if the marriage is to happen here in the future or it already happened over there. Each child requires a K2 or K4 visa, again depending on where the marriage is or was. So right from jump street there is a problem over and above distance. Add to this the child may or may not be happy at the prospect of relocating or even speak your language. I guess the last doesn't matter if the child is only a few months old, but a teenager who doesn't speak English will have a really hard time in most American schools. The 'instant target' phenomena.
Twazzle,your so right many of us don't realize the difficulties in a long distance relationship but thanks for pointing it out..
KEN ,after reading your comment , I would say 'hats off ' to the people who have made it here.
Molly,its too much of an effort your right...
Mim,your such a sweety ,I just needed those...
Im having a long distance relationship now and I do feel the uncertainty if ill meet up wit this guy one day.

He has not contacted me for 5 days now . not really sure how to proceed
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