Painful but I love to explore this life happily
I read some articles about ladies recently. I enjoy a lot the great idea from it. I admit I had been unclear about my own way. People with wisdom do help a lot in life.Ladies need realize what we want from a relationship. A guy when he is dating you,might treat you well,but you need find out how he treats other people,how he treats his ex,how long will his good treatment to you last?
I in a way agree ladies need also try to earn a good career,only this way, we can treat relationship in a objective way. once you have a decent career, you can respect yourself, and it is healthy to the relationship.
Sex is good and important for all the relationship,but the personality of the guy is more important. A guy who is honest and loving and caring his lady will build up your relationship. A guy only good at sex will not necessarily continue to be with you.
I enjoy life more and i plan to do my own things,a few things I think of relationship.
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Never been kissed that way before....
To my sisters, protectors of our young ladies, I offer this dance of decency !
So I told her," no need feel too bad about it, and open your eyes,look for someone better!"
Find him I shall
To be honest, I really don't know what I want from a guy anymore. After being in a loveless tumultuous 17 year-old marriage to an alcoholic, I'd be happy to settle for just anything....
I've come to realize one thing, I can't change the person that I'm gonna be with, I just have to make sure I can live with or accept his ways and vice versa.
E.g If I don't like to be surrounded by cigarettes smoke, I'd try not to end up with a smoker. It's better that way than try to change him or nag him to quit. I've done enough of those for the past 19 years and I'm tired, very very tired....
Love the guy of how he is now!Don't imagine that you can change him, and love that him in future!
He is born until now, and he is doing his way all the way, he would not want a stern teacher as his partner
I agree with you! It is always good if a lady can walk away from a relationship after serious thinking about it. I don't think it good for a lady to play with relationship, as it also hurts the guy. I do think relationship is a serious thing,so it is good to give it a good thought before you enter.
We need look into our own mind, and find out what we want,then it is good to find someone who match you. If a lady wants a stable relationship,then the guy need be stable, not today he will do this way, the next day, the wind blows to another direction.
Look for a guy that works hard.
Look for guy that brings home the check and hands it to you.
Look for a guy that has a good reliable job. And a reliable guy is one that does not flit from job to job.
Look for a guy that says, "I love you and calls you beautiful because to him you are the most beautiful woman alive.
If you have children see how he treats them even if they don't like him or want him. In time they should grow up and accept him.
Does your dog or cat like him and vice/versa.
There you have it. The perfect guy for you!!
I notice no one wants to mention talking to his ex girlfriend or ex wife. Like I say, here, more than once I have experienced this as have several I know before the relationship with me even really begins. Sometimes an ex has called me to say so and so was asking about you, sometimes they just ask for the last woman's phone number. I give it to them, then they are satisfied.
The next mountain in future will be greener!Ladies,please do not worry!
Long distance love need finally solve this long distance and try to settle your love locally.
Ditto.
Stalemate
Once my mum and daughter get used to the life here, I could study myself and we could travel from emirates.