Painful but I love to explore this life happily

I read some articles about ladies recently. I enjoy a lot the great idea from it. I admit I had been unclear about my own way. People with wisdom do help a lot in life.
Ladies need realize what we want from a relationship. A guy when he is dating you,might treat you well,but you need find out how he treats other people,how he treats his ex,how long will his good treatment to you last?

I in a way agree ladies need also try to earn a good career,only this way, we can treat relationship in a objective way. once you have a decent career, you can respect yourself, and it is healthy to the relationship.

Sex is good and important for all the relationship,but the personality of the guy is more important. A guy who is honest and loving and caring his lady will build up your relationship. A guy only good at sex will not necessarily continue to be with you.

I enjoy life more and i plan to do my own things,a few things I think of relationship.
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I can definitely support my own life easily. I am smart enough to do that! So I step backward and watch my life,i want a real relationship with a guy who want it with me.I would not and should not look for any guy in order to be in the state of marriage.
Good. Are you Arab woman?
Not Arab myself. I think to seek personal career, and to seek self confidence, and then set up a healthy relationship with a guy is true to all the ladies.
Yes indeed. I guess the western women have realised it and the Asia women begin to realise it:-) You are not Arab but live in Arab, is it fun to live there? I know nothing about Arab:-)
I just want a guy who holds me in both hands and kisses me blushing blushing blushing

Never been kissed that way before....smitten smitten smitten
It not only for nice to have Asian blog, but rather the beauty here too unbearable for western men to behave I fear.

To my sisters, protectors of our young ladies, I offer this dance of decency ! danceline danceline
I met a lady who met a young guy. Ok.,they fell in love, and the lady accompanied him for a while. But last time, when I met her, she told me, he decided to terminate with her, cos he thought she was not hardworking,and moaning over hardship in life.

So I told her," no need feel too bad about it, and open your eyes,look for someone better!"
Jenny

Find him I shall professor

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To be honest, I really don't know what I want from a guy anymore. After being in a loveless tumultuous 17 year-old marriage to an alcoholic, I'd be happy to settle for just anything....

I've come to realize one thing, I can't change the person that I'm gonna be with, I just have to make sure I can live with or accept his ways and vice versa.

E.g If I don't like to be surrounded by cigarettes smoke, I'd try not to end up with a smoker. It's better that way than try to change him or nag him to quit. I've done enough of those for the past 19 years and I'm tired, very very tired....
Mimi, it is very true.

Love the guy of how he is now!Don't imagine that you can change him, and love that him in future!

He is born until now, and he is doing his way all the way, he would not want a stern teacher as his partner
Hi, Ken,
I agree with you! It is always good if a lady can walk away from a relationship after serious thinking about it. I don't think it good for a lady to play with relationship, as it also hurts the guy. I do think relationship is a serious thing,so it is good to give it a good thought before you enter.

We need look into our own mind, and find out what we want,then it is good to find someone who match you. If a lady wants a stable relationship,then the guy need be stable, not today he will do this way, the next day, the wind blows to another direction. doh
We all exprienced the reality and our colorful imagination of our future. the only way to get to the best state of your future, is to work hard now. There would not be a knight to save us.
The secret to finding the right guy is this:

Look for a guy that works hard.

Look for guy that brings home the check and hands it to you.

Look for a guy that has a good reliable job. And a reliable guy is one that does not flit from job to job.

Look for a guy that says, "I love you and calls you beautiful because to him you are the most beautiful woman alive.

If you have children see how he treats them even if they don't like him or want him. In time they should grow up and accept him.

Does your dog or cat like him and vice/versa.

There you have it. The perfect guy for you!!
Thank you, Ed. I like the answer. I will look into that!
I also think on line you can meet people,but once you need decide to be with anyone, you need spend some decent time with the guy in real life.It is not the same as on line. On line stuff can only help you to know a bit more people from surface.
Ahh, but that is why I was hoping your daughter would attend a local University. Then I could ask you to lunch and see if we liked each other. laugh

I notice no one wants to mention talking to his ex girlfriend or ex wife. Like I say, here, more than once I have experienced this as have several I know before the relationship with me even really begins. Sometimes an ex has called me to say so and so was asking about you, sometimes they just ask for the last woman's phone number. I give it to them, then they are satisfied.
I will go with life offers me. My opportunity would be guys come to me,I think if the guys are not motivated to look for me, that means they are not attracted to me. I should not go to them. I will do my life,if someone loves me,they would come for me.

The next mountain in future will be greener!Ladies,please do not worry!
I think as nowadays,people who are far away can be connected by internet. but long distance is always an obstacle,it stops you from knowing the person you are with. So it need the guy to be indeed very dedicated to you. So if he hesitates at the beginning, i would prefer to neglect this kind of morning dew type of love.

Long distance love need finally solve this long distance and try to settle your love locally.
"I will go with life offers me. My opportunity would be guys come to me,I think if the guys are not motivated to look for me, that means they are not attracted to me. I should not go to them. I will do my life,if someone loves me,they would come for me."

Ditto.

Stalemate

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I think there will be guys attracted to me and make his way to me. I also plan to study in a British university open in Dubai.So I hope I would meet more people, along the way, there might be some guys finding attractive.blushing
When life offers opportunities,the opportunities will not be on the stands. For me,I need find opportunities to expand my circle. I am looking for regular guys whom we could love and cherish each other. I am sure they would find I am even better than they think of.
I did go through the process of finding agents for my daughter to study usa,but indeed it is just way too expensive for a primary student. So it makes much better sense to stick to emirates for me. As it is a safe city and nice public transportation.

Once my mum and daughter get used to the life here, I could study myself and we could travel from emirates.
Love will grow better when you free your heart and brain, it is also easier to judge a healthy love once you really don't force.
I think it is lucky to find someone you can love each other heart and soul, and to find a soulmate, you both sides need know what is right from wrong, I can never see an unstable mind will be able to set up something stable. I don't like morning dew type of love!Evaporate too fast in front of real life!
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