Why can not people be true ?

Like when posting pictures It seems always happen they post a young picture; Not up to-date. That to me is deceiving us who are looking for love. Also when I tell a woman what I like she says yes to everything likes too but then when I ask when can we meet they run like a scared cat. WHY is that ? Its like only 2% are real & the rest are mind game players.
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Almost like sorting those bad apples .....wine
I think many people join internet dating sites when they are simply considering dipping their toes into the waters of dating again.

Many are not ready yet to take that plunge into real-life meeting and dating.

They probably will be, at some stage, but not quite yet.

It is better for those people to change their profile from Dating to Friendship in some form. Then nobody is under any illusions, including themselves.
Mine was taken just last May. Pictures don't show few white hairs and wrinkles so if you look at my picture alone you'd say I'm in my 30's.laugh Besides I choose very well the picture I'd put on my profile. Rest assured they are not photoshopped. Just go slow on some of us here. Some of us here are really looking for love just like you and not just to catch somebody for visa purposes nor to feed us. bouquet
Of course, if you "box" everyone into categories...I suppose they will "fit....
Think Mollybaby has a good idea there. If they use looking for friendship only until they feel more comfortable it could help people who are seriously looking for someone.
What I see a lot here is,that there are the main profile photo as 10-15 years younger and big and very clear, then if there are supporting photos,there are usually a photo that is to the date but it is taken far away and not clear at all,so you don't really know,with who you are talking with.
I don't know how other react to that,but I by my self get immediately the feeling,that that person is somebody you can not trust and my interest fall in seconds to ZERO.
Again the one that have no pick at all,is out of my sight completely.

If you try to find somebody for a relationship,it is all up to trust and if you can not see who you are talking with or there are something miss leading,how can anybody believe,that.....................................!?

Rolf
Why don't you skype with the person before you meet them? Also, use common sense: Anybody over 40 won't look like a 25 year old. When it looks too good to be true, it is. Lastly, ask them straight up how old their photo is.
Yes,you can see,that the photo is not to the date,but if somebody has to hide from the time of NOW,or hide behind no picture at all,then they are hiding much more of them self too!!!

Rolf
Love the cartoon, Umm.
My respect of Nidifugous it not the animated film, is the drama.rolling on the floor laughing
If you don't like something, walk away. wave

Using old photos (and sometimes giving the wrong age) is simply lying and if I know stuff like that, I would cut contact - if someone lies about something like that, they will lie about other things.

There are a lot of people who have nothing better in their life going on than to mess around with people's heads. dunno
err because this is a free dating site perhaps laugh laugh
Nah im just kidding hug At some cases, those who have been wanting and waiting in weary for the other half, love will come at the moment when you least expect it.
So mean while love others because when you do the feelings will just comeback to you teddybear
Bearwave: The last five hours there have been 17 false accounts with differing locations on the active page. Far better to keep the conversation 'light' and reveal only general information.
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