I still miss you guys...
Ive always thought Im not the kind of person that actually needs people around to be ok... but I have been feeling that something is missing...And what could that be? I love my life... Im married to the man of my dreams...I have a wonderful kid...they do love each other and me :D
But yes...I do feel lonely... I havent had an honest conversation with someone I care -besides hubby and kid- about life and random stuff...
I miss my friends people... thats what is missing...
The girls!... friends for over 20 years now... shared and lived so much together...
Damn I miss those women.
I wanna go out for some drinks...talk about life... tell them I miss them and that despite my happiness... I need them...
But I cant do anything about that, and that feels like a bit of claustrophobia, so to speak.
Just I know I cant do much about that...except waiting until next time I can jump on a plane with family and wohoo!!!
Sighs...
Life abroad and so so far ....its not easy huh...
Anyways,just ranting.
Must be my sunday mood.
Adios
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I moved 10 years ago to another country on my own. I landed in a big group of people and had the time of my life going out, making friends and enjoying my time in another country. I'm still in contact and friends with some of them, but things have changed and a lot of them have moved, married etc.
I moved again 2 years ago about 1,5 hours away from the place I lived for a long time, and it's harder to meet new people as I got older. It didn't happen naturally as when I was younger, but I had to join a group and it wasn't easy in the start.
It's hard to miss people you are close to, I'm only a short plane trip from home and see my folks on a regular basis. Get out and about and try to meet new people, it doesn't help to miss your old friends, you need to make some new ones as well.
I have felt this exact same way, and I have caught up with some of my past close friends. We are still close, but they have changed and I have changed.
Times moves us on, and we find ourselves in new territory with old memories of how things used to be, where we were comfortable in a time past.
As others have said, while hanging onto these, we must make new friends in our new lives.
I have found that in my life, I have had to experience many "new births". And always, the birting process is not easy or painless. Yet with each of these times, my past memories have held me and helped me through.
I have found that as I look back on these "rebirths" I have new fond old memories of people I met who have joined my other good friends. So now I look for the new good friends who I will meet, have a coffee with, laugh and bemoan little things with.
I have found that to live is to experience new people, new friends while my old friends are always there when we can catch up.
Cheers,
Anyway, girl, what u feel is absolutely average feeling, u missed chatting with girls...friends.
You have the most important- your husband and daughter' s love. You are in beautiful city, lovely country and the most important - you and your beloved are healthy.
Good luck girl, all will be better and better
How respectful is it when someone says that she misses people and is reaching out to come out with stuff like that Nemo?
It's between Antonia and her husband to decide.
As far as I understand I wasnt looking for marital advice, was I?
I´d strongly recommend you to take a look at your own relationships and find a way to improve them...since it seems you know how to handle MINE, that is going just great -thank you very much- I dont need to explain you why am I here ,or what am I looking for.
If you realized im married , its because you have read my profile... and states there clearly that Im not looking so please , reading comprehension is also a trait I´d suggest to improve.
So, what else?
Ah!
As usual...thanks for your words people :D