10 Simple Ways To Be a Happy Person!

Joy is within your reach, go grab some!

We all want to feel happy, and each one of us has different ways of getting there. Here are 10 steps you can take to increase your joie de vivre and bring more happiness into your life:

1. Be with others who make you smile. Studies show that we are happiest when we are around those who are also happy. Stick with those who are joyful and let rub off on you.

2. Hold on to your values. What you find true, what you know is fair, and what you believe in are all values. Over time, the more you honor them, the better you will feel about yourself and those you love.

3. Accept the good. Look at your life and take stock of what’s working, and don’t push away something just because it isn’t perfect. When good things happen, even the very little ones, let them in.

4. Imagine the best. Don’t be afraid to look at what you really want and see yourself getting it. Many people avoid this process because they don’t want to be disappointed if things don’t work out. The truth is that imagining getting what you want is a big part of achieving it.

5. Do things you love. Maybe you can’t skydive every day or take vacations every season, but as long as you get to do the things you love every once in a while, you will find greater happiness.

6. Find purpose. Those who believe they are contributing to the well-being of humanity tend to feel better about their lives. Most people want to be part of something greater than they are, simply because it’s fulfilling.

7. Listen to your heart. You are the only one who knows what fills you up. Your family and friends may think you’d be great at something that really doesn’t float your boat. It can be complicated following your bliss. Just be smart, and keep your day job for the time being.

8. Push yourself, not others. It’s easy to feel that someone else is responsible for your fulfillment, but the reality is that it is really your charge. Once you realize that, you have the power to get where you want to go. Stop blaming others or the world, and you’ll find your answers much sooner.

9. Be open to change. Even if it doesn’t feel good, change is the one thing you can count on. Change will happen, so make contingency plans and emotionally shore yourself up for the experience.

10. Bask in the simple pleasures. Those who love you, treasured memories, silly jokes, warm days, and starry nights—these are the ties that bind and the gifts that keep on giving.

Happiness and fulfillment are within your grasp, but sometimes just out of reach. Understanding what works best for you is the first step in finding more of them.

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Jim, I love this blog!!! As someone who simply loves the joy of happiness love AND almost guilty that I feel I often get MORE than my fair share of it... wow

My cup is usually flowing over but when it's not it's at least always halve full grin

You have listed some great ways for us to find and be happy ... Thank you... Great blog yay

Hope everyone is getting their fill of happiness hug teddybear hug
Yeah, when I ran accross this, I thought there would be some people who are struggling, that it could use the help!
Aaaahhhhh Mr.Jim, you forgot No.11....wink

11. Maintain a smile and cheerful outlook even though your yummy cupcakes have gone missing! grin
Awww! Jim.
That it sweet!...hug
One thing we can NEVER have too much off is HAPPINESS!!!! applause applause

ABD if course CUP CAKES... cake cake very happy

That is of course if Mimi isn`t around to eat them all mumbling mumbling
Wallops

Mimi is still lurking in the shadows...giggle chomping on the cupcakes grin
AND OF COURSE... Dreams :dream: and Angels angel also make us VERY HAPPY very happy very happy very happy

Thinking this could be one very happy blog!!! hug hug hug hug
Wallop
Did you read Ekself blog, comment section? rolling on the floor laughing
I`ll bet she is Dreamy... maybe you should keep a good eye on her uh oh uh oh There will be none left if she is left to her own devises mumbling
I did!!!! and you were up to your tricks again!!!roll eyes roll eyes roll eyes

So Angel angelother than Johny love and making money... wow what makes you the happiest?cheering
Wallops

I'd be over the moon if I get texts from a certain someone..heart beating heart beating heart beating

sigh He has such power over me....smitten
Dreamy.. you need to catch your dreams daydream and wait for them to come a reality smitten smitten smitten

Of course that is if said person is not a Brussel Sprout!!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
There you go folks the cause of the Problem.....has now been removed........................
If he has an ounce of sense.. he would be flying on a jet plane to visit you and claim his Dreamcather 99 transport love love love
If he has an ounce of sense.. he would be flying on a jet plane to visit you and claim his Dreamcather 99 transport love love love
Wallops

When I get to meet him finally in person, I'd make him wear a green suit or shirt or something that is green, take a pic of him and send it over to you!

giggle giggle giggle

Brussels Sprout, that was a good one, eh Wallops! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Now because Jims blog is a HAPPINESS blog.. you have to list us 5 things that make you HAPPY!!!!yay as your penance for losing my poetry scold
Dreamy.. you won`t need to.. I will be THERE standing in the shadows WATCHING grin grin ... Just making sure you tow finally get it right or if a WET FISH is needed rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Where has Angel... flown off to angel2

Think it is time for a cup cake or TWO.or THREE... uh oh uh oh

KN.. hasn`t brought us any in tonight moping
Wallop.
snooty I can't stand that Johnny! He is very bad news...rolling on the floor laughing
Ok Wallops, I'm feeling a bit generous this morning.

Just take one and then off to bed for you! scold scold scold

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Angel

giggle giggle giggle
DC99.
drinking I want a German chocolate cupcake.
Oh Dreamy.. I LOVE YOU love love AND your CUP CAKES smitten smitten

i LOVE them almost as much as Angel angel loves Johnny heart wings

Which is almost as much as Dreamy loves her Brusssel sprout heart beating heart beating
Oh Dreamy.. I LOVE YOU love love AND your CUP CAKES smitten smitten

i LOVE them almost as much as Angel angel loves Johnny heart wings

Which is almost as much as Dreamy loves her Brusssel sprout heart beating heart beating
Angel

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If you look at the back of the cupcake, you'd see my teeth marks on it! giggle giggle giggle
Hi Everyone...wave Nope Dreamy I bit it firstapplause
Wallop.
And you love gjimmie. Now! Don't yah?..love
Capri!!!!! reunion hug bouquet

You took a bite and I took one.....what is left for Angel then?!?!?!? shock shock shock giggle giggle giggle
And if all else fail just just breath deeply and connect to that part deep inside yourself that is pure and undamaged and always joyful. Good advice Jim thumbs up
Good morning everyone wave

We had this cake yesterday - it was yummy smitten

I'm off today grin have a good Monday everyone!

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Sometimes things from outside of our control can make life hard, but that's the exception.

For everything else - we are responsible for our own happiness and if something is making someone unhappy, change it. conversing
Exactly! Happiness comes from within.
Thanks ladies for all of your comments!thumbs up

Somehow, my blog got overridden by "cupcakes".hmmm

You have to think of something besides eating.confused
KN,

Whatever floats your boat!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
jim
thumbs up good blog topic...sometimes we just need a reminder!!wine
thumbs up Absolute great 10 point plan.handshake applause
Hi Jim
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, don't make a pretty woman your wife.laugh
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Hi everyone great blog my friend. Definitely a good source of wisdom.

Mimi love those inviting cakes and K my dear friend that cake just needs to be devoured. Yummmy.

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