lovely4u7da
lovely4u7da
Feb 2015
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feeling`s and anger issues

I need some help in understanding why men feel it is ok to holler and scream and say insensitive, unkind things to there significant other JUST because they are angry or having a bad day .

why they don`t think how the other person is going to feel by their negative actions? dunno

their excuse is I said it or did it because you made me mad.

do you know it takes more power to swallow your pride and say nothing or walk off than it does to speak your mind .

a kind answer turn`s away anger,,,


I know some woman can be the same way,,however I need a man`s view point please sigh
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ekself
ekself●Onehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa
Feb 14, 2015●1 Blogs●1,711 Comments
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Not good but still better than the silent treatment some use when they are not happy with something. Rather shout it out than sulk for days on end and no one knows why.
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namaron
namaron●Seekonk, Massachusetts USA
Feb 14, 2015●1,658 Blogs●20,975 Comments
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Youre seeing it from a Female point of View.....Women do the same thing to men And yes...Men have feelings too...Although most wont admit or show it.........So..What you should have said is//"Why do People do these things"...............detective
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lovely4u7da
lovely4u7daOP●chicago, Illinois USA
Feb 14, 2015●11 Blogs●194 Comments
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I am trying to understand the why? and in the moment they are not thinking how this is going to affect the other person because they don`t care? right?
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lovely4u7da
lovely4u7daOP●chicago, Illinois USA
Feb 14, 2015●11 Blogs●194 Comments
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so when they show that side of them selves,,run run run don`t stop ,,,


ok anger can come from frustration, fear , or hurt and instead of addressing the emotion lets address the issue ,,,but what man is going to confess he is frustrated or in fear of losing something or hurt dunno
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namaron
namaron●Seekonk, Massachusetts USA
Feb 14, 2015●1,658 Blogs●20,975 Comments
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Because in a fit of rage...Nobody is thinking rationally...And it comes out before it is thought out..(And that moment when it comes out the One who saying it is already regretting it ..but its too late)........................detective
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Feb 14, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
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It is not ok and I simply wouldn't tolerate it.

I don't treat someone that way and expect same. All I would do is turn around and walk away.
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lovely4u7da
lovely4u7daOP●chicago, Illinois USA
Feb 14, 2015●11 Blogs●194 Comments
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why don`t more men just turn away??


pride their pride won`t let them????
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pedalguy59
pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada
Feb 14, 2015●2,000 Comments
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Probably power tripping.
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sands88
sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA
Feb 14, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments
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ekself...............silent treatment is a major side affect of the narcissist....
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Johnny_Sparton
Johnny_Sparton●Williamston, Michigan USA
Feb 14, 2015●371 Blogs●7,936 Comments
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I say it is a form of a tantrum that allows them to try an gain more control over a person. If they seen where doing such actions in the past produced positive results for them, why would they want to change their behavior?

dunno my opinion

I think Pedal is on to something.
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Nidifugous
Nidifugous●Yap, Federated States of Micronesia
Feb 14, 2015●197 Comments
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Lovely, it's a people issue, but here's something that I learned over the years: It's not okay to scream at another person or to say hurtful things. Usually people don't see how toxic any kind of a relationship is where people have no self-control and blame the other for their own bad behavior. Once you've been away from such an environment for years and then you revisit it, you won't believe that you've ever tolerated it. teddybear
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loulou77
loulou77●Vancouver, British Columbia Canada
Feb 15, 2015●71 Blogs●5,968 Comments
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nid
thumbs up
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lovely4u7da
lovely4u7daOP●chicago, Illinois USA
Feb 15, 2015●11 Blogs●194 Comments
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thank you thank you for all the replies ,,,,,

I am no longer in this relationship and thank God that I got out when I did ,,,,

I keep running into men that think this behavior is OK ,,,

I am starting to think its me

I am learning to see the signs and give myself time to know someone better b4 going out

thank you again
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iotaoo
iotaoo●Rewari, Haryana India
Feb 15, 2015●41 Blogs●1,258 Comments
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The anger is the perfect sign of a scenario where one feels he/she is almost forced to be in....In other words one wishes to get out of it but thinks he/she can't. ..its basically because of the suppression of one's own feelings. ...my point of view!
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