Is it wrong?

What do I do or say say now? Is it wrong to have a birthday? In that case I do apologize to all involved for doing do. I meant no harm. I did not pick the day I was born on and it is not my fault if you did not enjoy yours.

But why am I apologizing? For the second time since I'm here, I ask you, am I such a piece of shit? Tell me now and I will leave because I have never done anybody no harm. I cannot help if you have a bee in your bonnet.

The previous time I posted a blog like this, CS preferred to delete the blog after two days but that was under other circumstances, so I say again, tell me now and I tell leave. I don't need this in my life.
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Caatfoot I just took a look at blogs. Haven't been on them for a goodwhile as you probably know. I cannot imagine why you couldn't put up a Blog to say it's your Birthday, surely things havenot got that bad on there ? H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y

happy birthday cake balloons
Hi pretty babe. I have not seen you for ages and I'm surely glad to see you again. How are you?
Cat,

What is going on? Is someone giving you trouble? I thought Angel put up a nice birthday blog for you! And I see that it is down.confused
Whats up Cat?dunno uh oh
Gjimmie.
Calm down Now! & Focus.
My blog is not down...drinking
Hi Itchy.
I'm just getting tired of some people feeling sorry for them selves. And I'm not the lion king. I'm just another guy who wants to write his blogs in peace and if somebody dedicate a blog to me I want to accept it with grace without having to feel guilty about it.

And I have no regrets about stealing cupcakes, big black dogs or no dogs.rolling on the floor laughing
doh hug wave
Sands..thumbs up
Oh Cat...hug grin

Nothing wrong with celebrating bdays...I wanted to close my profile yesterday but I knew it won't be for long...I'll miss my good friends here and be be back again grin It's not a nice feeling when someone spoils your blog...give them a little patience, maybe they're just having a bad daygrin hug
lordy Cats i know your not, was just a figure of speech doh
and tho i understand only too well where your coming from, i too agree with Sands post thumbs up

That being said, best of wishes 2u from me bouquet
confused Jeez, I go for 2 hours to the gym and miss all the fun. uh oh

I'm not an impolite or uncaring person, but something I have learned in the last number of years in RL and on CS is to tell people who deserve it to - well, the first word starts with "f". It helps. wine
drinking Yeah! Bob.
Men up! And open your eyes....hug
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAT! cheering coffee ... AND do chill out! All this has much to do about nothing... have a coffee on me and keep your spirit lifted. Its YOUR BIRTHDAY, so enjoy! party happy birthday

Itchy, I think its the same thing that happens to many women who reach the 63 mark, I even went through it rolling on the floor laughing ... its called, "Oh NO!... not I! ... I'm almost 65!... that's old age, time for medicare, senior benefits and discounts, and every little thing and EVERYBODY GETS ON MY LAST NERVE!!!" ... so its normal and many men don't know they will experience this aging emotional feeling rolling on the floor laughing doh

Cat, don't allow yourself to be drawn into the spider's web! ... maybe its the hang-over that's making you a bit edgy from last evening from the parting with your nice friends. laugh kiss teddybear
roll eyes Oh! It's the mentalpause stage kicking in.

drinking Bob.
Go get yourself a sports car. And let your hair hang down...comfort
Angel

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Cat,
Firstly, Many happy returns to both you and Nam,
Next,
WTF is going on here, Two blogs from 2 different people saying that some here have used the occasion to try and upset you both.
Both you and NAM know better than to let those sort of people dictate how you feel.
It would appear that whoever you both are talking about has a chip on their shoulder.
Your advice to others would be to ignore the comments, maybe Cat you should accept your own words and just concentrate of enjoying yourself.
cheers
Sands,

5 years?! wow...grin

yeah, for me...on to the next fun blog after some contemplatinggrin
Angel,

what is mentalpause? does everyone gets to experience it?confused grin
Oh boy, Did I have a busy mailbox now? I wish the people would rather put it here. Then I had another long call form Barbados. What is happening here?
Crazy.
Mentalpause is that old age things. They just think,think and think! About everything...rolling on the floor laughing ( jkiddin)

PS. You know that! I'm just kidding with Bob...beer
WOW Sista i can't believe your age wow
looking great wine

Have you the fountain of youth in your back garden or whatconversing
Angel,

Did you get there yet?confused grin
Hey Cat, my friend!

Whoever they are that wants to bring you down....tell them to stick it where the sun doesn't shine!thumbs up
Crazy.
confused Did I tell you that! I have a sport's car? And a long haired wig yet? Nooo!
So I'm not there yet.

And when I do! Get the car & wig. I will pick you up!...grin
Hi Raven.
If you watched any cricket yesterday, you won't ask 'Whats up?",
laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Angel, I'll be waiting...where will we go then?confused
Hi Angel, Right, it is not down. Somehow it just faded into obscurity.
rolling on the floor laughing
Hi Sands,
WTF (Well that is fatasticrolling on the floor laughing ) What's wrong with today? Tomorrowwill bring no more $$
rolling on the floor laughing
Hey Crazy
Are you mad? You close your profile and I'll fly out there personally to reopen it. Snow or no snow.
grin wave
Hi Cat,
I am happy you enjoyed your day. I am sure you remembered - don't let anyone steal your joy. I am sure you didn't let this spoil your night.hug
Hi Kn
If you missed something, I did as well. I was out all day.
laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Hi Angel
My eyes are wide open since I have been taking that little blue 'look around' tablets.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Hi Sista
Now go go and waste a blooming friendship. Just leave the age factor out of it.
grin wave
Hi Angel,
I drive a convertible bur I don't like long hair. I only grow it in winter.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Hi DC
It is that silly dog of yours. I get livid when I see him.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Hi Simmo'
I really don't know what you're talking about. This blog has long ago lost any personal nature and sleeping dogs (ask Dream catcher) are best left alone.laugh
cheers wave
I know it! I know it!
After reading your blog, I know something was wrong..!
It's just.. It's just.. I don't know what it was.. grin

Anyway, Happy Birthday again Cat! flower
Hi Jim
There is no problem. Been sorted out somehow.laugh
dunno confused grin
Hi Johnny
Maybe I was just a bit over sensitive and impulsive. You know aging can have a negative effect on some people.
laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Hi Shay,
Hi Shay
It is not likely that it will happen now. Here where I am, my birthday is dead and gone.
Thank you Kal
But mercifully it is over now. I will soon forget that I'm a year older.

Anyway, it is almost 3 AM and I'm tired now. time to leave for Lalaland.
yawn sleep
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I know I cannot always have what I want, but that does not make me want it less. Otherwise I’m easy to please, flexible, accommodating and forgiving. I cool down as fast what I get cross. I hate it when people lie to me. I’m hooked to my laptop, but [read more]

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