How do you spot a bad boy?

I always seem to find out the hard way but if there's one thing I've noticed about them it's that they are way too full on early in the relationship. I have found no other common denominator.

dunno frustrated
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Everytime someone offers me a chocolate there are only orange ones left. Yuck!

By orange I mean the citrus orange. peace
Ah , a ray of hope 'then RainComeShine' (again laugh)

Here's wishing you all the best in your search for em , a gent ? grin

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Orange cream!
The future's bright , the future's orange rolling on the floor laughing
Oh no not orange!

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I think some guys become bad boys either because they dont really know what it is they want out of a relationship, or they find themselves in a relationship that doesnt suit them, so they hop from relationship to relationship in the hope they will eventually find one where they feel comfortable.
I think some guys become bad boys either because they dont really know what it is they want out of a relationship, or they find themselves in a relationship that doesnt suit them, so they hop from relationship to relationship in the hope they will eventually find one where they feel comfortable.
Solamente

I my book the bad bit is the deceit and not the need to move on. Leaving with no words of explanation. Even to be told 'I'm going but I don't know why' would have to do and better than spending a final night of passion then disappearing.

I now think that this man made a career of it and it's exactly what he despised about his own father.

He absolutely knew he was wrong but just kept doing it. Leaving at the peak of the relationship.

Two years of crying myself to sleep. That was down right cruel. There was a lot to miss. I could write a book about it. A match made in heaven.
It's probably you. There is a type of woman who attracts the 'bad boy', just as there is a type of woman who attracts the type of guy who will probably beat her up. Self esteem, desperation........they all come into play here.
Love Stick

You may be right but it will have been for different reasons. I'm very independent and not needy. A bit out spoken and as time goes on I become ever more suspicious of a man's intentions.

If I have a fault it's that I'm too trusting. It saddens me that I have to change that mind set.

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PS CS is a good school for learning that one shouldn't trust too readily. laugh
I married my bad-boy, we had 27yrs together, 2 daughters and 4 Grand children, he was fantastic. He met his match with me, because I was a bad girl. wave purple heart
Titania

Yep, that should work. Lucky you.... and him of course.

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I think you just put your finger right on it - leaving at the peak of the relationship. There's a kind of fear in thinking oh-oh, if I stay I am going too deep and that means I will get hurt because love hurts. Run! RUN!

So yes, he will always run. It's safer. frustrated

I know, because I do it myself. dunno
And if he was a Scorpio, then definitely. Self-destructive is a Scorpio's middle name. Wayhay, happy here, gotta go.

Vivian Self-destructive Lee

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Viv, I married a Scorpion.

I thought I was Sagittarius but at a recent stargazing club I found out that I'm some other sign that doesn't exist on the horoscope.

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RainComeShine it sounds to me like that guy had a true case of comittment phobia. There are alot of men and women who do suffer from this

As for me, men never leave---I've had to get restraining orders doh
Making them wait for a kiss is the way to weed out the users....liar
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