so confused
I like knowing what I'll be doing and feeling tomorrow, and in a week's time and, unless the universe has other plans, in a year. Very soothing. Being single means you can plan your short and long term goals and have a sense of serene purpose.Being involved with someone's else's agenda changes all that.
Is it normal to half-wish it would end abruptly in some utterly painless way (ideally he'd announce he's becoming a priest, or going back to a previous relationship which will, of course, ultimately make him as miserable as hell) so I can get back on track?
Having one of THOSE days. Very unsettling.
Hugs all round.
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Can it be a state of mind or habit? If agendas are imcompatible, then it mightn't work.
Hugs and hope your day gets better.
Hi KNenagh
I like the idea of some retail therapy.
Hiya Mimi,
Please send me a pm? Also, I need to ask you about something....
The yummiest of the yummy!
I wouldn't mind knowing what will happen next week. Each week in my lifr. Reasoning said! It might help me to know how to prevent somethings from happening in my life.
I've had a similar day. He was supposed to come for 1pm today and I was to make a meal. He didn't want it then and wanted me to make it tonight.
I was up at 7am, he was up at 10am. He was making a full English Breakfast at his place. I was having cereal at mine.
He won't be hungry at 1pm and I will be.
I told him not bother coming.
Yesterday's plan changed by 11am today.
I went out with the girls instead.
Sorry, I don't know what the answer is. Perhaps if our worlds revolved around only them then all would fall into place. Don't do it!
(Not OCD at ALL. Just - prepared)
You want to remain in your comfortable bubble of singularity and all that that entails... yet there are times you miss the company, the closeness, the touch, the romance. Unfortunately to get these means making an effort and leaving your comfort zone.