Watching Human Behavior
Watching human behavior always become my interest since I was 15 years old.Once I met a lady blogger who hold psychology degree and I found her very cool and unpredictable. I love her style in writing, so honest and easy to digest. Often, we discussed about the character of other bloggers in perspective of psychology side. From her I learn a lot. Unfortunately, because of my business, I was off for almost a year and so did her….
I believe there are many bloggers in CS who hold special expertise in certain thing, especially about life and daily life.
30 years (I am now 45, I was 42 when I joined CS) is still not enough time to understand people. Everyday I find new character new case on human behavior, especially the “abnormal” character. Watching people attitude and trying to understand why they do this or that, often I come to a conclusion which is not far from what those people admit about their characters.
Now that I join blogs in CS, I continue watching human behavior. But it is always my case that reading is not my strength, so I just read some blogs and comments that attracted me. I really sit and take all my time when I read their blogs and comments. I don’t comment if it is not necessary. The blogs that having the most comments are only 2 : either it is funny, interesting and well presented blogs and people love to participate in it or the blogs that full of unmeaning messages, mean that someone like to keep dropping comments in pieces (the blog’s owner that replying each comment one by one is not counted !!).
What motivated me to rise this blog is that…. I find, some bloggers has special mission to carry (not special mission of finding Mr Right or Mrs right). These blogger seems love to spread hate, putting oil on fire, attacking the writer for no reason and feel victory when the blogger owner starts getting tired with their attitude. My barely conclusion on this case is that they are having psychology problem in their personal life like disappointment in life or never reach their achievement, etc. But for sure, these people have so much energy that pushing their nerve.
In the other hand, I like to have these people. I am using their character to test my patient and wisdom, also to enrich my knowledge of human behavior. Not to mention, to know the reaction of other bloggers when these people start commenting one blog and I am impressed that many bloggers prefer to either just commenting on the topic or drop one short comment on these special behavior.
Finally, I present my most appreciation to this special group with special mission. Without you, the CS blogs would not be that colorful !!!
Keep it up !!!
Comments (14)
I do not post a lot of blogs,some are funny, serious,and even some personal.
I get some nice and some not so nice comments but I keep on blogging. I try not to let the bad comments stop me from sharing with the good friends I have here..
yeah well, it is just my barely conclusion. The other strong possibility is that the character is coming since they born, like being sarcastic person. There are many possibilities... can be their past experiences or so. In any case, it is important for me to understand those people, so I could give more space to them...
these are bad characters and I am not sure people who have it would admit it. as you know, only others who could judge us... and only us who know when we lie or tell the truth....
I believe... you are having intuition that always tell you about new person, right?
I was like 30 when I always mad when people commenting bad to me... but then I think... what was the benefit?
As such, our thoughts and feelings about that person perhaps more accurately tell us about ourselves, than them.
And that's when things can get really interesting.
Challenging the basis, or logic, of someone's argument is a different thing altogether, however. It's not personal, it's about the sequence of words in front of you.
It can sometimes be difficult to seperate the two, mind.
Ain't that the truth!
You are most gracious, good sir!