It´s easier to say "Yes"
It´s easier to say "yes" and most of the times we say "yes" because we don´t want to hurt someone´s feelings.the problem with saying "yes" to everyone may have already left you trapped with almost no time to yourself. You may have said "yes" to helping your friend to fix his car, "yes" to helping your boss manage a new project, "yes" to helping your significant other paint his apartment, "yes" to take your wife to the hair stylist, etc etc. How can we avoid this sensation of feeling bad when we say "no"? How can they understand that we can´t please everyone?
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sometimes they are in dilemma situation "how if say yes and how if say no". But that is not good mentally as other can use them.
I always happy to find my friend able to say yes or not.
I am glad I am able to make decision albeit only to say yes or not. is it not a big deal? it is a big deal.
Im glad that i am able to say no now even though it sure feels bad sometimes lol
There are people I will always say yes as I know I can rely on them and they would do the same. I have learned to say no where I could end up in using.
"Never say yes if you really mean to say no". That´s what I will do from now on. My own time will be my first priority!!!handshake