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Smile and don't look back.
He is the one who is untrustworthy...probably came to a point in the relationship that would have revealed his true self...walk away and don't look back!!
If it is a problem for someone you want to give things a go with that you are on a dating website, talk to him and check your priorities. I know how I would decide if it would be a problem for someone if I post on a dating website - I would stop using CS and try to built up something with him.
For me it would be common sense not to get infatuated too much until I met someone in RL and have spend time with him.
If it would have been serious for him in any way, you would have other ways of contacting him other than through a dating website or he wouldn't ignore all your attempts of communication.
Best of luck, hope you'll meet someone you both can talk and work things out with.
If he's OK to just switch off like that, then love (and even basic respect) is missing in action. Not good.
If the one you love does not behave first and last like the best of friends to you... not good.
It does hurt when we have had our hopes up! Look within and take strength from your heart that is open and capable of love! You would have been hurt by this person, and you are much safer without him.
...but have to agree with KN. Try to protect your heart until at least you meet in real life and get to know someone.
I have fallen into the same trap, previously, but realise it's not until time is spent together, do we really know the other person.
I think you have dodged a bullet on this one.
Best to move on....and a little wiser from experience.
Most of the people here, are terminally single.
Like a room full of anorexics telling you it's good not to eat, they'll espouse zero tolerance for all the things that are currently in fashion to have zero tolerance for, with no idea at all that relationships are at least a little bit about meeting someone you care about where they are emotionally.
I'm sorry you're feeling the pain of a relationship lost.
I hope it has, and your next will, enrich you life in some way.
If he's blocked contact, maybe give him a couple weeks to realize he's given up someone very important to him, and do your best to start healing. If he doesn't come around you'll just need to move on.
In the meantime I recommend upbeat music and shows. Try not to wallow.
Remember to take care of yourself, eating and drinking and what not. Getting sick isn't going to help anything. And maybe do something you'll feel good about, like learning something new or doing something(not too self sacrificial) nice for someone.
I hope you feel better soon.