GIVING ALL, ENDING UP WITH NOTHING

I am in.. But then I fired him as husband.

I´m afraid that´s lfe Joseph!

What about emotional attachments and investment?

Wow. No. Never. Do you mean emotionally, financially, friends - I can't imagine anything being so utterly destructive. Hope that hasn't happened to you.

Come to think of it, you wouldn't ever be with nothing. Experience, they tell us, is cheap at any price!

Hi Joseph,
during the times it initially seemed that way, i eventually came to know that my felt sense of 'ending up with nothing' wasn't the case at all... i realized that in the space of 'giving it all' i fully received what i needed to more deeply Love

even though you may has given everything even your heart the hurt will heal and time will move you on i was lucky never married she had her own property i had mine it may me a stronger person unfortunately it makes us hard to trust again

Yeah, as they say, what doesn´t kill you makes you stronger!

I've found this beautifully helpful.
I hope you might too

like drinking whiskey minerva lol

Sorry Moc. I do not drink alcohol! I prefer to be in control of my faculties.

Why did you ask? Are you inviting me to Ireland?

Beautiful. Lovely quote!

minerva theres a saying every rose has its thorn dam i love that song you visit me then i have two mums lol

Moc. No thanks! I´d love to visit Ireland though.

Sorry Joseph for your blog.

well minerva if you visit visit kerry we have fantastic scenery mountains lakes beaches walks etc and if ive a day off il show you the places to go maybe enertain you

That's very kind of you.
I also love Irish music.

minervia we have sush a house known in irish culture as a rambling house where all the musicians come and meet sing and dance and play irish celtic music

Oh great
And where is Joseph?
We could invite him too to cheer him up

bring him on you can boogey with him

I always give everything to my partner emotionally - when I know him and know that the feeling is mutual.

Otherwise you'll just wreck your head and heart. It's tough having something like this ending, but if it was good and mutual, you did get a good bit in return.

Hi Minerva
yes, lovely

Yes . Thank you

Yes I ended up homeless, jobless and pennyless whilst he swanned around in his big house with no mortgage entertaining his many girlfriends.

Eventually and several years later he tried to lay claim to the only thing left to me when it matured, but amazingly the courts stepped in with no prompting from me and told him to sling his hook!

I rebuilt and I'm proud to say that ten years on I'm entirely back on my feet and can hold my head high with a lot of self respect.

He doesn't have me so he has the greatest loss.

To all the kind folk who considered their 'not so' better half before themselves!