unconditional love, myth or reality?
I see that a word which is very much in fashion nowadays specially among women is the word " unconditional love" , everybody wants to be loved like this ...but do people realize what is the meaning of this word? is it possible to love without any conditions for an human being with an human consciousness?! I am not speaking of the great mystical figures who have reached BEYOND ordinary human consciousness to the source of " Divine" love , are you ready to love even the one who tortures you? kills before your eyes your family? have you not yourself expectations to be fulfilled and if they are not you will run away?! it is a terrible burden to put on the shoulders of a potential mate to expect from him or her to be loved in this way! behind this so called romantic expectation there is a lot of dream, of thirst to be loved and...immaturity I find!If we want to truly learn to love we should first face reality!!!
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Not of the real world...
antarkrishna Welcome.
The application of unconditional love to a relationship is quite the oxymoron on a few levels.
All of which surmise that one can not enter into a relationship without condition.
1. unconditional would define terms for the relationship. Thus making it a condition.
2. Love itself is in fact a condition, un-conditional would make it
un-love
3. nothing exists without condition. The condition of existence.
And as far as
" I am not speaking of the great mystical figures who have reached BEYOND ordinary human consciousness to the source of " Divine" love"
There aren't any, and if there are a few you would like to name,
Please provide proof they were not lying about their cognizance.
I think unconditional love can take place between fairies and super natural beings, cos they don't need food, they don't need expenses.
To ask for other people provide you an unconditional love, your request is more severe than the church. Get real, even go to church, how many people can do everything according to the bible, don't forget.That is a human being to do things for God. Who are you?
Oh. My message was too short. So sorry, CS, happy now?
Myth.
Everything else is conditional.
I disagree,
My kids have to earn my love
There'd be a bit of hoop-jumping expected!
Dont you know it !
The Happy Single
Attachment type = Dismissive
A lover will most likely not receive unconditional love from you at first or even for a time. However, once you love someone, flawed though they may be, you will likely experience some degree of love for them which may be timeless and unconditional.
Don't be such a doubter.
Unconditional love is a reality most of us have yet to realize. I don’t know how we can speak of Love without speaking of it as Divine Love for they are one. I don’t think most of us can know the meaning of Divine Love until we know the meaning by way of changed consciousness, whether individually or through spiritual partnership.
In the mean time it seems the entirety of human life is our movement or growth from immature love to mature… that is to say, movement from notions of Love as being ‘romantic expectation’ to inhabiting our lives as Beings of Divine Love, realized.
Thanks for your blog
Lol!!!!
Keep it going this is a good one!!!!
Stay Blessed!!!
Goodenuph
we ALL yearn somewhere inside ourselves to be loved , to be fully accepted and fully understood, unconditionally...may be we have been hurt by life and we don't want to hear about it anymore but it is there hidden ...: is it not the call of an absolute love ? the persistent dream despite all life's denial of an absolute union?...a flame...
Yes I totally agree with you !
Hi Peonyjenny,
I don't think we need to be fairy to love ( be the way you don't know your inner fairy?) and this has nothing to do with the burden of materila necessity...
I do believe love can be learned ...
You are the first person to be responsible for yourself, if you can't offer unconditional supply,then I think not easy for the partner to provide this unconditional love.
if you make love dependent of the ability to provide material supply to the other then I wonder how you can love your daughter??? what material supply you get from her?....
but i can understand why you settled in abu dabi when you don't look so so arabic!!!! it is to find a rich" petrol Emir" to provide you all your desires for jet plane ( or yacht or rolls royce etc) that would be the perfect lover for you