~~WANA SHARE SOME PERSONAL WITH C/S FRIENDS~~

I did it. I distanced myself from the constant drama. The personal attacks, designed to cause trouble. It was the best thing I ever did. It cost me some friendships, I knew it would, but for the sake of my own health, I did it afterwards much lamenting , but being in their company was like walking on egg shells. I just can't do it anymore . I limit my time in their company, and avoid conversation. I share nothing with them, it took me years to finally give up, I tried and tried, not any more. Best thing I did. Amazing how the stress level dropped, and I feel no loss for that particular person.
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Well done, old chap. bouquet
There are people with whom I get along very well...
If we never speak. Never.
hmmm

And you are right. It does affect one's overall wellbeing.

cowboy
Yep some friends can be toxic, best to walk away when it affects your well being.teddybear
owlsway Good For you.

I had to distance myself from people who were causing way way too much drama.

If I wanted drama I could have watched a soap opera.

It is called simplifying ones life for the better.
Very good choice..thumbs up handshake
wave The mere fact that one has to put up with an obnoxious and spirit draining being is in its own very debilitating.One has to always be on your toes and count your P,& Q incase you hurt their feelings. It is the worst feeling ever when you have to peep through your window to see if that person is not going to be in your path on the way to your car. The greatest feeling ever is to be free to make your own choices,come and go as you please and don't have to answer to a soul destroying individual. You did the right thing ,now start living your life Peace angel angel
i dont have that problem..as i dont have any friends..help
Owl...Sounds like you have found out a truth in life! Positive life changes are not all ones that we know from the beginning are best...it is with action and assessment that we find our answers. thumbs up ..Avias
Thanks friends.. advise i received from all of u..nd feel more strong within my self luv u all of u..?
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