The Die Is Cast

Cat lets be brutally honest same person SAME M.O. your title says it all die cast, that means whatever happens the result is always going to be the same-Always.
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So hows the weather in SA?
I read youre still having rolling power cuts there due to supply shortfalls, are you running on a pedal generator to blog?

Cat I see you say you have not had load shedding for a week. Not sure how far you stay from me but we have had it three times this week ,think I must move my property

CatFoot, this is your 2nd blog about Snooks...
so why not just leave her alone?

agree with itchy on this one, lets-let it rest.
Im saying no more.
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I hope and wish ALL here have a good day, im going to visit a forest to relax and rejuvenate a bit, might take a picnic, anyone wanna join ! :)
ive been tethered to the house for manyyy weeks, time for a positve change.,
have a good one people

last thing I commented to her was, you sound frustrated but it happens all the time/well not sure if was the right thing to say but she sounded frustrated

My mum used to say that when all are at odds with you you have to ask the question,"Could it be me?".

I do remember two CS members arguing over who was the more attractive. and Why?

We hardly see these people now but it would be nice if they were to return later with a different point of view.

I agree with Itchy - enough is enough.

As I've mentioned prior I am coming off a 11 month marriage to a malignant narcissist. It' s been the most horrific experience of my life. I will try to be brief, but I can write a book now. I met her on an International dating site (not CS). Traveled Europe for a couple of months, came back to the US and married. Two and one half months into it I knew what I was up against. So, for the last 15 months I read, read, read everything I could get my hands on. I even watched every movie that was about narcissism to see if I can better spot it. Mommie Dearest with Joan Crawford was the most interesting. A narcissist tries to steal your identity, they bring to a relationship everything bad you can dream of and more, They are pathological liars. manipulators, promiscuous, self serving Gods. They believe no one is better then them at anything, they are never ever wrong, and will fight you to the death to make you understand that. Let me say, I am a very empathetic and compassionate man, that's what attracted her to me. The narc lives off of 'narcissistic supply' and that is 24/7 attention attention attention. When a narcissistic injury happened, like yesterday, the narcissist will re-balance themselves take a break and then return for more supply. They are vampires and have no empathy or emotional value. It is like talking to a door, but they are very very good at masking their emotions, they will show some sorts of empathy because it is a learned condition, it's not due to having real feelings. Ken was very observant when he said she's not real. Here is a video that I posted yesterday, it's only 24 minutes long, but will give you the knowledge one needs to understand this personality disorder. I have no anger at all towards my ex to be, I pray for her soul every night, I do have lesson learned. We still email even though this support group I belong to says 'NO CONTACT', but she's in Europe so I don't see the harm. I send her stuff to read, but a narcissist will never ever read about narcissism. The woman in the video in my opinion hits the nail on the head, she's good.

I tell you this to make you all aware that a sheep in wolves clothing is real, especially on blogs where they can grab their narcissistic supply.
Psychic Vampires (How to Recognize and Protect Yourself From an Energy Vampire) - Teal Swan

thank you Cat for the venue

try this link

It's a pity like that...

that's a wolve in sheeps clothing

Sands, i'm begining to wonder.. are you sick

Hi IW, did you get a chance to watch the video???

It is very obvious that there is something wrong there.

It's her problem and she has to life with it - it doesn't look as if she is leading a happy life.


Sorry to hear about that sands, didn't you know each other for long beforehand?

what was that woman talking about...the source that is everythingness !!! she invented a new word....what a load of BS..

There were three blogs about Snookums yesterday just leave the poor lady alone.

KN, we skyped for about 9 months prior to meeting in London...

Hey Ian, believe it or not that's a good sign you watched the video. Listen again a pay attention to the details, she goes very quickly

Hi cc....did you watch the video???

It just takes time to get to know a person.

You do sound like you see it rational and moved on, I wish you best of luck to meet someone to make each other happy.

Sands

I watched the video. Good one!

kn, time is not the element, they will fool you till the end. On other N blogs you will read that everything was good until they married and then the process began...

so sands she was british..no wonder ....

sands I don't need to watch any video.

Give it a rest already.Please.

cc why? I don't understand...she's a very good orator

PS I refer to no-one. By continuing in this vain it's very unhealthy for all of us!

Ian, she was actually Lithuanin and had lived for 10 years in England..

thank you Rain, I had mentioned on Lou Lou blogs the Psychopathy next door that her video should be watched by every child 10 years and older. Our knowledge in this area is very poor, some say it's 15-20% of the population, that is unbelievable to me.....

sands

I think that is reason enough to leave this site. such a shame but who the hell can you trust?

When the door is opened anyone can get in and although that's how it should be some of us will be gullible.

I may be saying my goodbyes later. I'm thinking over whether or not I allow myself to be affected!

Jeez RCS, don't let it affect you!

Take the good from the site, some people, fun and chatting with interesting people from all over the world and keep away from the negative stuff.

It would be a shame to not see you posting anymore.