disabled and dating.

Now this isn't a "Oh poor me" pity party kinda thing; I simply want advice. I'm 20 and live in Muskegon Michigan. I'm disabled; I've got what's called Cerebral Palsy which basically means that I can't walk nor talk. But otherwise I'm mentally normal; I can have kids and all that. My problem is; guys either just want sex or they can't accept my disability. Any advice?
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Welcome to the "Zoo" My Lady
No matter what We Are..We Are All Waiting for that Special person
And you being So pretty?
Its All just A matter of time
All you have to Zdo is Wait'And the future Will let you know
Thanks =).
I agree with Nam. However, I am sure the right guy will find you. It is said that we cannot seek love, but love finds us. :)

It sounds like from what you have posted, the right guy has not shown up yet.
Because CS is an international site it's a great place to make friends, but not known as the quickest way to find someone local, I would suggest as well as being here you have a look at local sites, as the others have said the right guy will turn up, all you can do is increase the odds of finding him sooner by getting noticed wave
wave My darling if you go onto google and type in disabled dating you will find a few connections there, Get a friend or family member to help you GOOD LUCKteddybear
I'm aware of the fact that this isn't the profile review section. Neverless you've asked for advice. I would have chosen a different profile name and mentioned it in the text. One time would survive and be more positive. Share what you want and not what you don't want. Keep it light, fun and as sweet as you look! Ops, almost forgot, a baby in the main picture could be scaring away any good man.

How do you communicate in daily life? Sign language?
wave outsideofbali Very well said a splendid idea,I Never thought about the baby,yes that could be the negative,and hope you will consider taking this adviceteddybear
Yeah great advice! I use a device with my eyes.
wave ZMAN sorry I have only been on for about two weeks but have noted your responsbouquet bouquet
Beeing mentally normal is a great advantage. thumbs up I have experienced people who was popular by the looks, but mentally disabeled. I`m sure you`ll find somone! cool wine
Candy, "tried it once didn't like" laugh after being on here for over 3 years you get to be pretty good at spotting them doh grin
Lady Disable

you're not alone, I have my disabilities as well physically disabled now there's a guy here that likes to tell others through personal email about my problem, he likes to laugh at me so others can laugh and hit me/by the way this guy is from Canadahug

I won't say his name/he likes to banned people if someone mention his name/rules he says/yeah rightgift
Great!blues
thanks everyone =).
hug got to give you top marks for coming on site and explaining things. Well done you that was brave. I think a lot of us on here have been searching for a long time because finding someone in our own place has not worked for whatever reason. We all seem to come and go then and make internet friendships that can last years.
Your disabilities are not seeming to hold you back one bit so I am sure you will find someone in the meantime hang around you can make good firends and even just maybe if you get lucky a special friend.hug teddybear
hi. disabled....girl. last days i send youfriend request.. but you did not reply...if you want to friendship.. with me. reply .i have no problem.handshake handshake
i am a simple and honest boy..
Hey Amar, maybe she hasn't discovered the "friendsrequest" featuure yet. Anyway, whatever happen to communicating with people before calling them a friend? There's nothing more phony to a profile than a friendslist that makes it into the CS top ten. Getting a friends request from a total stranger or having the show up on your fans list is creppy and has desperation all over it. JMPO. By the way,out of curiosity, I just had a look and worked out that I'm getting about 50 requests per month and I trust it's the same for every other woman on here. The point I"m trying to make is, forget the "friends" approach and put in the time andenergy required to get to know somebody if this is your true intention.
chanch your name ,for a better one you deserve it girl and good luck
Don't back down from your ideals. You look and sound very sweet to me and it appears you would make some man very happy one day.

Just stay here on the blogs with us and have fun. Someone will be attracted.
Very good age,and I think you can also imagine if you were a guy,what do they want in a girl. And you can work on the things you can improve. There will be some guy who will appreciate you,life does need patience. Wish you find what you want.
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